My signs from dead relatives and pets: many dozens of dreams about them, hundreds of coins and banknotes found on the floor (also a few gift cards and other valuables), sometimes a feeling of uplifted mood, coincidences and lucky events (e.g. thinking about a music album and then finding it in an unlikely shop).

In one dream, my mother said that she'd had another baby.  I asked my father (still alive) about it and he said that she'd had an early-stage miscarriage in 1976.  I knew nothing about it before.

In another dream, my father (now dead) built a music school in the shape of a square ring.  Two years later, the music school where he worked was extensively renovated to form a square ring shape.

In July 2005, I was at home in Wales for my mother's funeral and the clear-up afterwards.  On 7th July 2005, there were four terrorist bombings in central London, very close to where I work.  I avoided the bombings and the ensuing disruption by being in Wales, so Mum protected me even in death!

hello, i love this discussion.. i have had lots of little things happen, before my dad passed when i was looking after him i said will you come back and see me he said yes  :) this has not happened yet but my step mum died a few weeks before my dad and she came to me in a dream and dream so vivid and wierd its was untrue ..i woke up and remembered all the details of our coversation... 

but still nothing off my dad but i have noticed that when im out and about and walking i see robins they seem to follow me, i have even seen 2  sat together i said morning to them :) ive seen so many i even got a tattoo of one on my back i like to think this is dad and mom together popping to see me, 

but im still waiting for dad to come see me even in dream form 

there has to me more to life that this, i believe there is something waiting for us after ... but what i dont know and wont until my time comes. but i do know at the end my dad was chatting to my step mum and other people i couldnt see but clearly he could as he got closer to passing

Hi Sarah.

I liked your post. Sorry about your mother. I'm a Londoner. No matter where you're from. We all understand loss.

My lovely mother's 2nd yr anniversary is next Monday. (28th October). She was a good age. (82). But she was so young at heart. It was still an awful shock. I went with her to the Consultant in August 2017. By the October of that year. She was gone. The evil 'c' word. We were very close. Had been through alot together. My dad died of a heart attack when i was 17. I have an older brother. He lives in the States. But my mum & i were very close.

About 9 weeks after her funeral. I was watching tv. Then i heard this weird noise. I live alone, so this made me nervous. I went into the kitchen. I realised my clock radio had turned itself on quietly. I was confused. Turned it off. It came on again. TWICE! Then i realised it was from HER. Saying she was ok. She's at PEACE. Another thing happened. My brother & i are selling my mother's house. The first time i went back there after her death, was incredibley emotional. I was shattered. The next morning. I woke to lovely blue skies. (This is London. Usually grey!) i'd had the window open, curtains closed. Had a pillow over my head. (Noisy bloody neighbours!) But i heard this lovely birdsong. My flat has wires on the window ledge to stop birds landing.  But it didn't stop this beautiful little bird perching next to my window. It looked tempted to fly in. I've never, ever had a bird do that & i've lived here 16yrs! I spoke gently to it & got emotional. It looked up at me as if to say 'i'm here. You'll be ok'. Then it flew off. I was so emotional & happy. I felt close to her. A very special moment. I hope you have more special moments too. (Sorry my post was so long). 

Hi Beach45. 
I just read your post. So sad. Your mum looked very kind in your photo. I found your dream very moving. Definitely a sign. The bit about the music is a message too. I often dream of my mum. Some are vivid. But usually she's annoyed with me!!! But i don't care. She's often leaving me in dreams. I've sometimes woken up with tears in my eyes. My cheeks have been wet. But that's what you get when yo love someone. 

This may sound weird to others but when we found out that my mum was terminally ill, I asked her that when it happened and she passed away, if she could give me signs that she’s ok which she said she would. The reason why I asked, for the most part was because I wanted to know if she was ok when she died but also because I was curious to know if there is anything after life. It’s simply hope for something bigger that drives us to believe there has to be more and in essence I’m the type of person that although spiritual, takes things for how I see them and doesn’t read too much into things.

Well, I honestly believe there’s something after here. The morning before my mum passed, my brother was stroking her hair and said he thought that although she was still breathing, she’d gone mind and spirit and only her body was remaining, so I said if that were true, give us a sign. Literally a second or so after saying that, a window cleaner at the hospice, started washing the windows of her room from below with a telescopic pole. Now this itself doesn’t sound like much but my mum was a stickler for washing her windows at home and due to being immobilise the last few months of life, she couldn’t wash them but wouldn’t let us wash them either and would often complain in jest that she’d die before she got a chance to wash them again! 

Another sign I got was in a dream a few days after she passed. We were on a unfamiliar street chatting and the pair of us were in dungarees. Now I’m known to wear dungarees anyway, they’re comfy but my mum wouldn’t have worn them in life, she was that little, she probably would have got mistaken for a child!! Anyway the day after, my aunt came to mine to show me some pictures of my mum that she had in an old album that I’d never seen before, one of the pictures was her pregnant with me, in a pair of dungarees! 

Wednesday last week, the day of her funeral, I was sat at the front and just as I was about to go up and give the eulogy and said in my mind ‘if you’re here, show me’ and just as I stood in front of the pulpit, the sun streamed into the chapel right on to my mums coffin as if a spot light had just come on because I was about to speak of her. Everyone gasped and then laughed, it completely turned the mood around which I know she would have wanted. 

I suppose they’re signs that only myself and family members could take as comfort but I genuinely think there has to be more to death then just the final breath.

Hi have you maybe thought and ive said this to otheres that you saw your mum in dungarees if there is your mums not going to be seen as being ill but younger .and healthy and at a happy time in her life .the bodys just flesh but what makes it run is energie and energys there till the begging till the end of time so all that love and thoughts cant just blip out of exsitance i had all sorts of wierd things electrical disturbinses warnings you feelings of warmth like my partner was cuddling me from behind not a touch a warmth it was so comforting i dont get it now as they cant cant round us forever that would be wierd but i beleive they stay for a while and in truth how could we ever truly find out or we would all want to go there to soon so yes i totaly believe .best wishs .paul

Hi. I'm sorry you also lost your mum. How interesting to read so many others having odd experiences with birds. I have had birds calling out to me a few times now. They come right to my fence on my deck. Haven't seen any in a little while now, the weather is changing. But I hope to have more lovely bird experiences next spring. 

Hi Paul,

I firmly believe that when you die, you go back to the best part of your life. Like when my dad passed away, I dreamt about him and he looked so much younger than I could ever remember (baring in mind he was 40 when I was born). I liked to think after death, he went back to a time when he was his happiest and I think the same of my mum (now that I’ve seen the picture of her pregnant in a pair of dungarees) as she often said how much she wished for and wanted my brother and I (she had multiple miscarriages and was told she couldn’t have children). So I like to thing she went back to the best time of her life in my dream and was wearing dungarees as a sign.

Absolutly the energy which is us does actualy stay till the end of time thats not my oppinion its science states that so ergo there you go we both think the same glad you agree about your dreams parants younger i mentioned that to anothere they had never thought to look at it that way your not not the only one to dream that way ime 65 if i was going i would want to be at my heathiest not like i am now  hope my liz is that way and free from pain a great comfort to dream that dont you think theres more in this universe that we will ever understand or are ment to crumbs they dont even know how half the drugs work ive just been in hospital with sepsis i dont think they know fully how to treat that they just kept me on same antibiotic untill i asked for a diffrent one .regards paul