i lost my dad to cancer this year it was a painful and degrading death no pet would have to endure the pain but at the end he was in control miss him feel guilty please help xx
Very sorry to read that you lost your Dad earlier this year. I understand how difficult this is because I lost my Mum to cancer a few years back (lung).
You say you feel guilty...is there anything in particular you feel guilty about? I think most of us who have lost someone dear to us also experience the same as part of the process but oftentimes there’s absolutely no need for us to feel guilt.....x
Can I add my sadness that you are having such a rough time about this. What happened - was your dad cared for at home or in hospital (or a hospice). Why do you think things went badly wrong and why should you feel guilty. Can you give us some idea about your age - not that it makes an enormous difference but if this is your first experience with the death of a much loved one it may help us to understand. Hoping you will come back and chat with us further. Annie
Hi annie sorry to interupt you give so much support but its seldom asked how you are . Not the best of xmas for most on here its a pity we dont have a magic wand we can take everyones pain away not been long for me but seem to be coping but i went out straight away and got just about anything going to help and am sure thats the answer . Is your leg healed i beleive you tripped over your dog a while ago . You certainly are a trooper .i come on to try and help but can only do a few as it gets to close to home at time .i cant realy wish you merry xmas as it dosnt seem right but ime going to thank you for all the others you have helped and the many regulers that come on to help .paul
Hello Paul and I will say a Merry Christmas although I know it must be a difficult time for you. And it must be equally difficult for others on this forum who have lost someone dear to them. I think that no matter how long ago it is since you lost loved family members and friends it still causes a pang when you remember Christmases in the past. I am hoping that Graham (who posted this thread) will come back and talk to us about his dad. My leg has not healed but to some extent I am getting used to it hurting! I think that after the Christmas period is over I will go back to the GP and see what s/he says. We are having a quiet Christmas here - I have done all the family things beforehand - so I will try to spend a bit of time on this forum today as many regular posters will be tied up with family Christmases. Well done to you Paul for sharing your grieving over the months which has helped many people. Annie
Yes i hope he does somerimes people need to just put something down as i think we all need to tell people whats happend or rant or just need to talk or advice and what better place to come you must get your leg seen to its a long time now.best wishs paul
