Hi its i hard road to travel i lost my partner three months ago and the loneliness is unbeleivable i joined a social group they do walks meals etc it was awful the first walk as i felt guilty because my liz wasnt with me but the last time was a meal out .even thoe i felt like a fish out of water it didnt seem so bad and there was some that were widows widowers .we need to be with people .its not a magic cure but its a start .trouble is if you move away the loneliness will be still there plus when your grieving wait dont make any big desisions just yet . You havent said much about yourself so if you haven't try some bereavment counciling join a bereavment group these have all helped me .i feel for you as i know what its like ime sorry i cant cant help you more but its a lonely road but one we have to travel to get through ime afraid put something ahead of you to do each week it will keep you going .regards p