Hi there yes my partner liz was midiagnosed then said definatly wasnt cancer it was something else then finaly lung biopsies 8 months later called us in then said it was she was gone 3 months later they saidsit may not have made aadiffrence cheeky devils the thing is they took her chance away the rotters. the  nhs is so slow with scans etc and to many using it and the drs wait and see atitued .but try and put that behind you for now. be kind to yourself you need to care for yourself grieve in your own way and time later then u can complain to pals patiant liason at the hospital they are independant and will tell you diffrent ways to complain .p

Thanks for the kind words Paulus, at the back of your mind you just feel that  maybe, if only, things may have turned out differently, and if theyd found out sooner she may have had more precious years left with us, it's hard not to dwell on that, it tears you apart watching someone you love so much deteorate so quickly, as you yourself know, I'm sending you my best thoughts and wishes to help you also with your heartache and your loss. X