Hey! Did you go to the chapel of rest? My Dad passed 3 weeks ago and it's his funeral in 6 days. I'm really torn about whether to go and see him at the chapel of rest. I wasn't with him when he passed- he waited until we had all left the hospice however I was back there within half an hour and was given time alone with him to say goodbye. I'm not sure if that was enough for me or whether I should go and see him again?

I went to see my mother in law 8 years ago and it was incredibly traumatic. The amount of drugs she was on had made her look totally different and it literally traumatised me for about 2 years. 
 

But (and no disrespect to my mother in law) but this is MY dad. My absolute hero. 
im so torn xx

I think I will see how I feel on Wednesday. I'm going to drop off some bits for his coffin so I think I'll see how I feel. 
 

How are you doing now? Xx

Hi

my advice to you would be to go it's so peaceful their and that's your last time with your dad lm from lreland so we always have a wake as such were we celebrate them my husband was so loved and as l said went in 24days he looked just like himself but then he did right up till his last breath l was with him and so was my four sons.It's your Dad he be minding you and looking after you all the way.xx