My son passed away from cancer a month ago

My son struggled with cancer for 4 years and passed away last month. I am heartbroken and devastated.  I cannot believe this has happened .. I miss him so much.  The day before his funeral I was diagnosed with Advanced kidney cancer.  It was such a shock.  I had no symptoms just a pain in my left side which my GP thought was a pulled muscle.  Eventually I went for a scan and a tumour was found on my right kidney and the cancer had spread into my ribs on the left. I still cannot believe this is happening to me.  I am grieving so much that I can hardly think of myself.  How can I cope with both losing my beloved son and a diagnosis of Stage 4 cancer.  I started biological therapy yesterday  I am broken.  How can I now support my daughters to help them through their grief for their brother? 

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  • Hello my name is geraldine and I totally understand how you feel as I to lost my son 2 years ago on the 6 th of may at 10.15 and I have and will never get over it , I manage my pain better and with freinds family supporting you it helps uplift you sometimes as greif drains everything and you must go through the 5 stages so please cry scream and let it out as the pain is unbearable sore and you will feel at times so lonely even with people near you , I felt like I was in a fog and I was trying to clear it , my heart goes out to you and I can only say he's with you in your heart and I no like me you won't him next to you and to speak and hug him he will always be in your thoughts hugs to you xx

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  • Hello my name is geraldine and I totally understand how you feel as I to lost my son 2 years ago on the 6 th of may at 10.15 and I have and will never get over it , I manage my pain better and with freinds family supporting you it helps uplift you sometimes as greif drains everything and you must go through the 5 stages so please cry scream and let it out as the pain is unbearable sore and you will feel at times so lonely even with people near you , I felt like I was in a fog and I was trying to clear it , my heart goes out to you and I can only say he's with you in your heart and I no like me you won't him next to you and to speak and hug him he will always be in your thoughts hugs to you xx

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