Hurt over mums death

We lost mum to cancer 3 weeks ago now. It was awful to watch her the last couple of days breathing horribly, looking awful and speaking to spirits of passed family members. But what I can't get out of my head is her actual last breaths and dying. She took this almighty gasp and looked as though she was in pain on her face and it's eating me up thinking she was almost scared or in pain to be going. Is thus normal for dying cancer patients to do this?? 

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  • Hi MrsL83

    I lost my sister who was 35 6 weeks ago and i too can understand what you mean the images of my sisters last breathe and her face are stuck in my mind .. its too painful to think about it so i try to block it out. I wonder did she know she was dying? was it painful .. it truly is heart breaking worst experience of my life. My sister tried to speak that cuts me up too because we cudnt understand what she was saying x 

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  • Hi MrsL83

    I lost my sister who was 35 6 weeks ago and i too can understand what you mean the images of my sisters last breathe and her face are stuck in my mind .. its too painful to think about it so i try to block it out. I wonder did she know she was dying? was it painful .. it truly is heart breaking worst experience of my life. My sister tried to speak that cuts me up too because we cudnt understand what she was saying x 

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