Hurt over mums death

We lost mum to cancer 3 weeks ago now. It was awful to watch her the last couple of days breathing horribly, looking awful and speaking to spirits of passed family members. But what I can't get out of my head is her actual last breaths and dying. She took this almighty gasp and looked as though she was in pain on her face and it's eating me up thinking she was almost scared or in pain to be going. Is thus normal for dying cancer patients to do this?? 

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  • Hello there.. i'm very sorry about your loss.. My mom passed away 4 months ago because of pancreatic cancer. and it was very very hurtful.. I just can't get through this.. When she was taking her last breaths I could see her face as you did.. it was very painful to see her like that she was looking at me and I just didn't know if she's in pain or scared or don't want to leave me.. I think that all people with cancer are like that.. It's just like that they're not ready to go.. feel free to text me take care ..

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  • Hello there.. i'm very sorry about your loss.. My mom passed away 4 months ago because of pancreatic cancer. and it was very very hurtful.. I just can't get through this.. When she was taking her last breaths I could see her face as you did.. it was very painful to see her like that she was looking at me and I just didn't know if she's in pain or scared or don't want to leave me.. I think that all people with cancer are like that.. It's just like that they're not ready to go.. feel free to text me take care ..

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