Hi Pawar, 

I'm really sorry to hear that you lost your mom to cancer three years ago, and how difficult you are finding things at the moment. 

Do you have a friend or family member you can talk to about how you’re feeling right now?

The Samaritans are also just a phone call away. They are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week on 116 123, so whenever you need a listening ear, someone will always be available to support you.

Many of our members here will know what you are going through, having been in this position themselves with their parents and loved ones, and I'm sure some of them will be along soon to offer their support and share their experiences with you.

We’re here to listen to you, Pawar, so do keep talking.

With best wishes,

Helen
Cancer Chat moderator

Hi my mum died 6 weeks ago , it was very suddenly . I feel very jealous with my husband who has his mum , I keep going to call her but then remember I haven’t got her . I can’t go to the cemetery as I feel it’s not right she’s there.   Sam 

So sorry to hear of your loss. I know how you feel about the cemetery. It feels like a cold place and not home to my mum. 

It still doesn't get much easier, some days are better than others. It's nearly 2 years now and I miss her like anything, she's a like a dream that was in my life. I still wake up in the night thing out for her. Feel so alone in this world without her

I know how you feel. People take it for granted having mothers. What i would do to have mine back...

Thanks for your message. How are you now? It's an awful situation. Life just feels empty and can' make no head nor tail of it. Everything always felt better with mum around