Syliva, I am so very sorry for your loss, I know how it feels, my husband passed away in October and I miss him so much, I too wish they could let us know they are ok. There are lots of people on here going through the same terrible time who will offer support. Sending love to you Debbie xxxxxx
Hi debbie, how are you havnt heard off you in a while i feel ok at the moment health wise ,got to go the hospital next month to see about my breathing me and the kids just having a quite xmas dinner we will go to the crem to put flowers on my parents grave ,we will put some flowers in a vase for my hubby ,it is my hubbys birthday on the 27 dec might go for a walk weather permiting to a place called spike island my hubby used to like watching the mersey from there . Take care have a peaceful xmas will be thinking of you Syl x
Hi Syl,
I'm ok thanks got a cough and sore throat so feeling a bit sorry for myself. I am still at work at the moment finish at one and it's dragging. I am going to my sisters on Christmas day along with my Niece and Great Niece who is 5 so it will be nice to be with her and a great distraction, I will go to the Cemetery in the morning to leave some flowers for Sam. Glad you are feeling better, just googled Spike Island but couldn't find anything, where is it?
Wishing you a peaceful time to (i will be glad when it's all over)
Take care
Debbie xxxxxx
Hope you wont mind a joint reply (just stops me repeating myself!). Know we are all going to struggle through the festive season but wanted to wish you both a peaceful few days with the family.
Debbie hope that annoying cold clears up for you and am sure having your young great niece around will help you through too.
Syl I am sure being with your children will bring you all some comfort.
I am grateful to be having the children/grandkids for company (am at my sons for Darcey's 1st Christmas Day with my daughter and family too plus my future daughter in law's parents and sister so a very full house (not forgetting the Westie!)). They will pop in to spend some time with me on Boxing Day.
Went to see my Mum this morning and also laid flowers at hubby's resting place. Tomorrow will have a day to myself for reflection (plus gym visit and picking up butcher's order) and preparation.
Hi Debbie, hope your feeling better and your cold has gone, every one i meet at the moment is full of coughs and colds its the time of year.hope you had a nice xmas with your family, mine was a quite dinner with the kids then to the crem .we managed to go to spike island for a walk as it was a nice day for hubbys birthday its in Widnes its just a lovely walk that over looks the river Mersey .i will also glad when its all over, i am going away for a few days with my daughter on the 2 Jan were going withs shearings coaches to Harrogate dont know how i will feel as my hubby and me loved our coach trips i hope i can enjoy it but it will feel strange not being with him have a peacefull new year Syl x
Hi Debbie, hope your feeling better and your cold has gone, every one i meet at the moment is full of coughs and colds its the time of year.hope you had a nice xmas with your family, mine was a quite dinner with the kids then to the crem .we managed to go to spike island for a walk as it was a nice day for hubbys birthday its in Widnes its just a lovely walk that over looks the river Mersey .i will also glad when its all over, i am going away for a few days with my daughter on the 2 Jan were going withs shearings coaches to Harrogate dont know how i will feel as my hubby and me loved our coach trips i hope i can enjoy it but it will feel strange not being with him have a peacefull new year Syl x
Hi Syl, unfortunately am not much better went to my sisters Xmas day but had to leave early as I felt rotten, then at 1.30 in the morning got a really bad earache so boxing day had to ring nhs helpline eventually a doctor called me back and said to go to primary care at 1am I was so tired but had to go as I felt so ill, diagnosis perforated eardrum and infection, basically been ill the whole of Christmas so been stuck at home on my own most of the time, I have not encouraged visitors as I don't want anyone else to catch this really bad cold. So all in all rubbish time. Glad you had a nice time and hope you can enjoy your coach trip xxxxx Debbie
Really sorry to hear that you are so poorly. Bad cold aggrevated by a perforated eardrum must be so very painful and very lowering. Bet you just want to curl up in a ball under the covers. Sending hugs and hope you will soon be feeling a lot better. Jules x
Hi Debbie, sorry you had a bad xmas its awful when your not well, its seems worse when your on your own, at least they have sorted the problem and can treat it now. as i said to jules i didnt go out new years eve ,i wanted to stay on my own i wished hubby a happy new year with a irish coffee one of our faverouite drinks, i like to think he could hear me i hope so. Going to harrogate tomorrow for a few days with my daughter hope i can enjoy it ,hope your feeling better soon take care Syl x
