Syliva, I am so very sorry for your loss, I know how it feels, my husband passed away in October and I miss him so much, I too wish they could let us know they are ok. There are lots of people on here going through the same terrible time who will offer support. Sending love to you Debbie xxxxxx
Syliva, I am so very sorry for your loss, I know how it feels, my husband passed away in October and I miss him so much, I too wish they could let us know they are ok. There are lots of people on here going through the same terrible time who will offer support. Sending love to you Debbie xxxxxx
Thanks debbie ,its nice to know people care iwas married nearly 46 years even though i do things during the day your still coming home to a empty house i dont think i will ever get used to it kind regards Sylvia x
Hi Debbie not heard off you in a while hope your ok ,been out with my son and daughter on different ocasions over the week end, it was lovely to get out and about for a while im well aware im alwaye coming home to a empty house. regards syl
Hi Syl, not been good for a few weeks now don't know whether its a stage or the nice weather but been very down, had my mum round today and got stuck into the garden, I just can't face going out with family or friends. Hope it passes soon. Glad you have been out and about. Take care thinking of you. Debbie xxxx
Sorry your feeling down its a awful feeling as if your never going to feel happy again, i watered my garden tonight my husband always did it ,its little things like that you realise how life has changed do you have kids Debbie? they can be a comfort when your feeling down . take care Syl x
The early weeks and months after such a deep loss (for some years even) throw up many emotions and even the presence of family and friends can sometimes present their own problems. Our feelings are so personal and sometimes difficult to explain to others but the forum gave me a much needed outlet for the emotional rollercoaster I found myself on.
I am somewhat further along the journey as it is almost 17 months since I lost hubby though the emotions still come and go. Earlier today I had a message to say my son's fiancee was in labour (week overdue) with their first baby and I shed tears both in the happiness that is coming and the sadness that my hubby, who would have been so proud, is not here to share the moment in person. I am grabbing on to the thought that he is in all our hearts and that the new baby will have some of his genes as she goes on with life's journey.
Hi Debbie hope your feeling better to day its lovely to have close friends and a lovely neice your close to i dont have granchildren my sister has a grandaughter but i hardly see her. Regards syl x
Hi Jules , hope every think goes well with the baby its something to look forward to, im sure your hubby is looking down with a smile on his face i can understand your mixed feelings sad and happy at the same timebut im sure the baby will fetch joy into your life .i wish i had granchildren its not to late yet but time is passing take care Syl x
Thanks Syl, just returned from having my first cuddle. Darcey Megan was born at 1.40 today weighing 8lb 5oz and all the family are doing well. My first grand-daughter and she is beautiful but then I am biased!!
Hope you have had a relaxing and peaceful day. Take care. Jules x
How lovely glad every thing went well ,its a lovely name you will be kept busy now am going out with a friend later on only to a market we will have a coffee while were out it takes my mind off things for a while take care Syl x
