Hi debbie, how are you havnt heard off you in a while i feel ok at the moment health wise ,got to go the hospital next month  to see about my breathing me and the kids just having a quite xmas dinner we will go to the crem  to put flowers on my parents grave ,we will put some flowers in a vase for my hubby ,it is my hubbys birthday on the 27 dec  might go for a walk weather permiting  to a place called spike island my hubby used to like watching the mersey from there .  Take care  have a peaceful xmas  will be thinking of you  Syl x

Hi Syl and Debbie

Hope you wont mind a joint reply (just stops me repeating myself!).  Know we are all going to struggle through the festive season but wanted to wish you both a peaceful few days with the family.

Debbie hope that annoying cold clears up for you and am sure having your young great niece around will help you through too.

Syl I am sure being with your children will bring you all some comfort.

 I am grateful to be having the children/grandkids for company (am at my sons for Darcey's 1st Christmas Day with my daughter and family too plus my future daughter in law's parents and sister so a very full house (not forgetting the Westie!)).  They will pop in to spend some time with me on Boxing Day.

Went to see my Mum this morning and also laid flowers at hubby's resting place.  Tomorrow will have a day to myself for reflection  (plus gym visit and picking up butcher's order) and preparation.

Take care of yourselves, virtual hugs.  Jules xx

Hi

firstly I am sorry for the loss And I am very impressed with your kids taking It well.

he is im a better place now and he is okay. I know how it feels I just want to see my gf again as she died a few weeks ago from lung cancer but I like to remember that she is looking down on me and I want to make her proud 

this is the same he is looking down on your family and he will want you to be happy as a family.

there will be hard times and these can come from nowere but remember it's best To cry and let it out.

i can't really help me inch more but I don't but I hope It helped a little bit.

take care and once against I be incredibly impressed with your kids coping I was a big blubbering mess.

hope you and your kids had a good Christmas christmas and roll on 2017.

Hello Ashley , thank you for your kind words  we managed to have a nice xmas we had a quite dinner at my sons   it was hubbys birthday on the 27 Dec we had a nice walk to one of his  faveroute places  but its not the same i wish  he was here with me  but it wasnt meant to be .take care Syl 

Hi Debbie, hope your feeling better and your cold has gone, every one i meet at the moment is full of coughs and colds its the time of year.hope you had a nice xmas with your family, mine was a quite dinner with the kids then to the crem .we managed to go to spike island for a walk  as it was a nice day  for hubbys birthday its in Widnes its just a lovely walk that over looks the river Mersey .i will also glad when its all over, i am going away for a few days with my daughter on the 2 Jan were going withs shearings coaches to Harrogate  dont know how i will feel as my hubby and me loved our coach trips i hope i can enjoy it  but it will feel strange not being  with him  have a peacefull new year Syl x

Hi Jules,  glad you had a good xmas with your family, must have been quite hectic at times  . I  enjoyed dinner just me and the kids it was nice to reflect on the good times  when   hubby was here we also went on one of his faverouite walks on his birthday 27 Dec as it was a lovely day  . I am also going out with my sister new years eve to the local pub then staying over at hers, i didnt wont to go but every one said i shoudnt  be on my own while its the first year with out hubby but im not looking foward to it. Im going away for a few days on the 2Jan with my daughter on a coach to Harrogate will see if i enjoy it  as we loved going  on our coach holidays it will seem strange going  with my daughter .take care and have a peacefull new year Syl x

Hi joe,thanks for your good wishes hope you and your family have  a  good new year   lets hope 2017  isnt as  sad  or unhappy  as 2016 take care  Syl