6 years ago I lost my youngest daughter to lymphoma.I have 2,other daughters and they miss her also.the sadness never goes away. we talk about her all the time and remember the laughs we had she was the type of person who could make you laugh just by her being there.The grief never goes away but you do learn to live with it I hope you will also.

6 years ago I lost my youngest daughter to lymphoma.I have 2,other daughters and they miss her also.the sadness never goes away. we talk about her all the time and remember the laughs we had she was the type of person who could make you laugh just by her being there.The grief never goes away but you do learn to live with it I hope you will also.

Hi Jeannie I am sorry for your loss you must know exactly how I am feeling I really appreciate your reply we as a family also speak about my daughter daily and do everything we can to keep her memory alive and will keep on doing so I lost a cousin when she and I were both 7 she was never spoken of after her death it was if she had never existed I understand it was my aunts way of coping but like you I want to remember Aimee for the wonderful person she was I will grieve for her for as long as I live but as you say you have to carry on thank you again for your kind words take care x

Hi Jeannie

I also lost my daughter to Lymphoma in March 2017. She was my eldest daughter, my best friend, my favourite travelling companion and a truly lovely person. She was 52 and had endured so many procedures, trials and treatments. She left behind 3 wonderful boys who are her amazing legacy but I see her in so many of their mannerisms which many would find comforting but tears me apart.

I look for signs that she is around still but the truth is that she is gone and I will never talk to her, kiss her, hug her and see that wonderful smile ever again. She loved and lived life to the full, was interested in everything and everyone and never said ' Why me?'

She was one of lifes radiators and I am asking now WHY HER?

We are all living a kind of life now. Trying to fill our days, to smile when we meet someone and cover up the pain. People think that after 18 months you have had time to adjust and grieve but tears are just below the surface and I don't think that will ever change. I MISS HER XX