Hello Tillytoos,

I just wanted to welcome you to our forum and I hope you will get to talk to many here who can truly relate to how you are feeling.

I am so sorry for your loss and would like to send you on behalf of Cancer Chat our sincere condolences. It must all still be very raw for you and as you say, it was all so fast.

Your story reminded me of that of one of our amazing users, Beaker83, whose husband died really young in his twenties due to bowel cancer. She has been doing a lot of fundraising in his memory and is a truly inspirational lady so she may be able to give you some advice on how to deal with it all, given she was in a similar place almost a couple of years ago. See her profile here and her past contributions on the forum. You can also read her thread A Year Has Passed and feel free to respond and share your own story with her.

I will now let others come and say hello. You have come to the right place for support during this difficult time.

Best wishes,

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

Hello Tillytoos,

I just wanted to welcome you to our forum and I hope you will get to talk to many here who can truly relate to how you are feeling.

I am so sorry for your loss and would like to send you on behalf of Cancer Chat our sincere condolences. It must all still be very raw for you and as you say, it was all so fast.

Your story reminded me of that of one of our amazing users, Beaker83, whose husband died really young in his twenties due to bowel cancer. She has been doing a lot of fundraising in his memory and is a truly inspirational lady so she may be able to give you some advice on how to deal with it all, given she was in a similar place almost a couple of years ago. See her profile here and her past contributions on the forum. You can also read her thread A Year Has Passed and feel free to respond and share your own story with her.

I will now let others come and say hello. You have come to the right place for support during this difficult time.

Best wishes,

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator