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Missing my mum everyday after her death age 68 to bone, liver and stomach cancer

Sweetwoman41
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Hi all

My mum passed away recently from the disease which spread and wasn't cured despite the best efforts of the medical team at hospital. My dad said she felt tired over easter so she went to rest and thought nothing too serious going on however as the weeks progressed she lost her appetite, became weaker and fell downstairs in my parents house. 4 days on from the funeral each day gets a bit easier but I still have moments like hearing her favourite motown music on the radio, hearing aeroplanes flying overhead as she had to cancel a holiday abroad due to the illness, wanting to hug her but I can't do any. I just have to try and stay strong and remember life is meant to be enjoyed but it is not always easy.

Does anyone else feel these emotions after losing a loved one?

  • Hello Sweetwoman41

    I'm so very sorry to hear about the recent loss of your Mum. Undoubtedly, this has been a very difficult time and it's understandable that you've been experiencing a rollercoaster of emotions. 

    I think from what you've shared in your post that what you're experiencing is a very natural part of the grief process that I'm sure others will be able to identify with. It might help to have a look at the information on the Cruse website about growing around grief. If you feel at any point that it might be helpful to get some bereavement support, you can access help through charities such as Cruse, Marie Curie and Maggie's. 

    If it helps to have a safe space to put down in writing how you're feeling then you're welcome to continue posting here in the Cancer Chat community, Stweetwoman41. We're here for you. 

    Thinking of you all at this difficult time. 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator 

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