Loss of my Mum x

I lost my Mum 20th January 2024 and I feel like my life has stopped.I go to work and go through all other motions but I feel nothing.My Mum died 2 months after being diagnosed with mastatic cancer.My Mum was 88 but it was not her time to leave us.She had been my Dads carer before he moved to a nursing home on September 8th a year before and this was supposed to be her time to rest and do what she wanted she never got the chance to.Im so so angry with this and I miss my mum terribly. Hiw do I function in life now without her.

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  • Hey Shopqholic

    I'm so sorry to hear about your mam passing, it is one of the hardest things to go through. One thing that I’ve been told after loosing my mam is that whenever I feel low or miss her to write her a letter, I know it sounds silly but on those days that you want to just tell your mam about your life and what’s going on, write a letter. But most importantly it’s ok to cry and scream if you need to because holding it in hurts a lot more than getting it out. Also there is no time limit on grief. I lost my mam December 16 and I was just about to turn 22 it flipped my world upside down and I couldn’t see a way through it but trust me that the people in your life that love you don’t care about how much you cry or bring up your grief they just want to be there and support you xx

    if you ever are struggling with one of those I miss my mom days just reach out because it helps having someone to talk to 

    Emma xx

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  • Hey Shopqholic

    I'm so sorry to hear about your mam passing, it is one of the hardest things to go through. One thing that I’ve been told after loosing my mam is that whenever I feel low or miss her to write her a letter, I know it sounds silly but on those days that you want to just tell your mam about your life and what’s going on, write a letter. But most importantly it’s ok to cry and scream if you need to because holding it in hurts a lot more than getting it out. Also there is no time limit on grief. I lost my mam December 16 and I was just about to turn 22 it flipped my world upside down and I couldn’t see a way through it but trust me that the people in your life that love you don’t care about how much you cry or bring up your grief they just want to be there and support you xx

    if you ever are struggling with one of those I miss my mom days just reach out because it helps having someone to talk to 

    Emma xx

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