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I miss my mum so much

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Not really sure where to start as I have never written on here before but here goes. 
My mum passed away on the 8th may 2023 in a hospice with all her immediate family around, it was like she waited for us all to be there. She battled for two and a half half years with primary lung cancer and secondary in the brain, she fought so hard and never complained, she was a true fighter.

I'm 35 years old and pregnant with my second child my first being 14 years old, and I have no idea how to cope with losing my mum, she was my best friend and we did everything together. I've had a month off work and I still feel completely numb, one minute it feels like I'm okay the next it just hits me like omg my mums not here anymore and just burst into tears. 
 

Has anyone been through similar to me, if so how do you even carry on with life when you are grieving so much, the pain is the worst pain in the world. 
Any help would be greatly appreciated, 

thank you xx

 

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    Hi Aimee, I lost my mum after a diagnosis of 6 weeks before she died, it’s the worst feeling in the world, I haven’t been back to work yet and she died in March, I have had days where I have cried and cried and days where I’ve felt ok , just take each day as it comes, there’s no right or wrong feeling . I think to myself that my mum would want to be carry on with my life and not want to be so upset and cry every day. 

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    Hi Aimee, I lost my mum after a diagnosis of 6 weeks before she died, it’s the worst feeling in the world, I haven’t been back to work yet and she died in March, I have had days where I have cried and cried and days where I’ve felt ok , just take each day as it comes, there’s no right or wrong feeling . I think to myself that my mum would want to be carry on with my life and not want to be so upset and cry every day. 

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