Hello Lobkevde,

I'm not sure if you are the same person 'susara' that I replied to yesterday as the circumstances of your lovely Mum are identical, it may be your sibling that wrote the other post but I didn't want you to think I had lost the plot by replying again. I just wanted to say how very very sorry I am that you have lost your precious Mum to such an agressive form of cancer and she was so young too which makes it all the more devastating. I just wish I had words that would help you but I know from experience words can support but not really help the pain. Your Mum and how you describe her reminds me of my own amazing Mum. I read your Mum's blog this morning and cried. What an amazingly brave and selfless woman your Mum was and how much she thought of you all and your father. Your Mum worried about others even when she was suffering herself which is exactly what my Mum did, we were so blessed to have such wonderful Mums. There were so many points in your Mum's blogs that made me stop and think, by writing this blog her words will help others going through similar. What I also found inspiring about your Mum was how despite her own fears and situation she still tried to find positives and keep realistic, she truly sounds such a courageous wonderful woman. I found witnessing my own Mum go through two cancers over 4 years just how brave she was, I already knew she was brave but honestly witnessing everything she went through and all the devastating results that different medical specialists gave her (not always with any compassion) astounded me. I miss her so much I can feel the pain in my heart daily. Its early early days for you and your family, find comfort in supporting each other through this, we are all here for you too.

Jane

Thanks so much for taking the time to respond and thank you so much for taking the time to read through her blogs, she would've loved that so much and it means a lot! She always put us first despite her circumstances and I'll always be grateful for that. Yep susara is my sister and we both decided to make a post on here for advice! You're mum also sounded like such a lovely person and I'm sorry to hear about her passing, witnessing her during every stage of her cancer must have been really hard and I can sympthasie with that after experiencing it too. Once again thank you for reading my mums blogs I know she would've appreciated it and thinking of you and your mum too. Sending you all my love X