My Dad

I have the most amazing dad.  He has been my rock and my world all my life. I have this week found out he has terminal cancer. 
I know our parents get older and they sadly pass.  I am just not ready.  I don't want to lose my dad.  I don't feel I can cope. 
My life hasn't been easy.  I was abused as a child by my mothers  dad. My grandad.  No family believed me. They cut me dead.  All by my dad. He believed me instantly and supported me to this day. My dad is the greatest man on this planet.   How can I ever get over losing him.   
I don't expect a reply I guess it feels good to say how I am feeling xx

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  • I had the most amazing Dad, he like yours was the centre of my universe. I sadly lost him to a glioblastoma on the 29th of November 2021, 3 months ago, but has felt like a lifetime. He passed in just 5 short weeks after he was diagnosed. 
     

    I know exactly what you are going through and am sending you so much love, it's such a scary time as you can't even begin to imagine life without them, but you will shock yourself at just how strong you can be. But saying that, you don't have to be strong. If you need to cry... cry, if you need to scream... do it. 
     

    it won't be easy... at all, there's no sugarcoating it, make memories if you can. Tell him you love him every day and as much as you feel like you will never be okay again, you will I promise, life will never be the same again, but you will be okay. 
     

    lots of love x

  • Thank you so much for your reply especially as it is only 3 months since your dads passing.  I truly am sorry for your loss 

    You are correct it is scary.  I am scared to death.  I am a strong positive person and I have my dad to thank for that.   I am lucky i have such an amazing dad I am just scared to continue my life journey without him.  
     

    Thank you for replying when this must be so raw for you.  I cant tell you how grateful I am xx

  • It's my pleasure, just wanted to let you know you'll be okay ️
    and to count your blessings that you have such an amazing dad, love like he would have and when the time comes continue his legacy x

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