Dad Prostate Cancer spread to bones, what can I expect?

Hi.

I have been reading these posts for a while. My Dad, after undergoing tests has been diagnosed with prostate cancer, confirmed spread to pelvic bones. He is 71 and just came through a quadruple bypass! I am reliant on Dad and Mum for info, diagnosis and prognosis which is hard as they don't always fully understand all the information they are being given. Can anyone help me with what to expect? My Dad is my everything and I'm finding it all really difficult x

Parents
  • Hi it is possible he will be put in hormone therapy, remember im a cancer patient and not medically trained.

    My prostate cancer has spread to lymph nodes spine ribs pelvis and a lung,I was diagnosed Feb 2016 been on hormone therapy since diagnosed, not always the same one, and I did have chemotherapy at the beginning.

    I've had a few ups and downs over the years.still managing ok and looking after my wife, she has Alzheimer's and Parkinson's plus other problems.

    Hope you can get more information soon.

    Billy

  • Thank you so much for your reply. Wow, you must be strong in both body and mind! Yes I think they are planning injections and tablets first, maybe that is the hormone therapy. They have also mentioned chemotherapy after this but so far no timescales. I suppose I panicked a lot when I heard it had spread to his bones and hard not to think the worst (whilst hoping and praying for the best). I think I will also have to encourage my parents to ask questions to be clearer on what's happening/planned. Appreciate your time and wish you and your wife well. 

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  • Thank you so much for your reply. Wow, you must be strong in both body and mind! Yes I think they are planning injections and tablets first, maybe that is the hormone therapy. They have also mentioned chemotherapy after this but so far no timescales. I suppose I panicked a lot when I heard it had spread to his bones and hard not to think the worst (whilst hoping and praying for the best). I think I will also have to encourage my parents to ask questions to be clearer on what's happening/planned. Appreciate your time and wish you and your wife well. 

Children
  • Hi i didn't put to many details down before just to give you idea, but My PSA was 1581at beginning over 2years it went down to 0.03 then slowly rose to 6.0 over next to years beginning of 2020 it started to rise quickly between Feb to Jun went to 68 went on different hormone therapy tablets last test 006 .you learn to live with your uninvited guest.

    i as on injections every three months from beginning of treatment.

    As ash said weight gain, I've finally got mine down to a nice weight for me just careful eating,. Im now 70 years old. Having plenty of hot flushes.

    Hope things go well for your father and treatment works well.

    Billy

  • Thank you for this. I must try and find out this information in relation to my Dad. I think it was a shock as all happened very quickly. I like your attitude and the uninvited guest, so I think some we all need time to adjust to this new way of life but this chat has really helped. 

  • Other information you want is stage 1to 4 , .Gleason its two numbers added together like 3+3=6 upto 5+5=10 max score,, . mine was stage 4.  , Gleason 8 also some letters with numbers letters are  T. N. B.  Are main ones depending on cancer numbers after letters and possible A or B after numbers sorry if its confusing, after tests your father should get a letter with test results which should make things easier.

    Hope things go smoothly.

    Best wishes for the future.

    Billy.