I am beyond deverstated my husband just been dianosed with terminal liver cancer. I want to die with him. We have been married 37 years . i font know what to do
Aww Marie im so very sorry for your loss. Its such a cruel disease . Its heartbreaking for the families especially the partners. Praying that you will get through this awful sad time. My heart breaks for you im lost for words but please know your in my prayers xx
Hi i havent wrote back to anyone in months. Im struggling today Terry my husband had sirt radiation treatment on hus liver tumor. It has shrunk from 15cm to 5cm . But they found 2 more tiny tumors in his liver. Hes just had lasor treatment on them this monday. Hes in so much pain hes home now. I was reading his discharge papers they said the lasor treatment went well. But the big tumor has started growing . Im so upset when we first found out they gave him 6 months to live. But then they offered him this amazing treatment to shrink the tumor which it did. We felt like we had a second chance at life for Terry. Hes been getting bettet everyday and scans have always been good ones. Im deverstated the big tumor has started to grow again.. What can i do im such a weak person i suffer with anxiety and im scared of losing him. Hes my everything we have spent everyday together for 37 years. I feel like im a burden on my family because im not strong enough not to cry and breakdown. My family are so much stronger than me .I hate myself
l was sorry to read your post and can understand the upset you face.. l am no expert but it seems to me you should rejoice for having those 37 years together,not bemoan losing them, and concentrate on taking the very best of each and every single day together from here on,The time for regrets will come in your future,but not now,now is time for taking the best from each and every single day spent with each other,
tread gently and seek out every drop of happiness together,
