My husband was diagnosed with bladder cancer a couple of months ago whilst we were separated. He then moved back home which I thought would be best so we could face this together, I didn't want him to have to go through it alone. He's had two surgeries so far and in the last one they found another mass which had been missed by the first surgery and scan. How I'll never know. It was a massive blow to all of us. I can't even imagine how he feels. We're now awaiting the biopsy results. A family member came to stay when he came out of hospital and he was in good spirits but once they had left he went downhill, seems very depressed. Totally understandable it takes time to process what they have said. But now he's turned on me, anything I say he twists making me out to be such a nasty person and telling me I'm a liar, shouting at me in front of the kids telling me I'm a C word. I've had his family member sending me nasty messages and none of it is true. I'm just trying my best to be positive and take care of our children and keep everything normal. I haven't been my strong self this year, I've suffered badly with anxiety and panic attacks which are currently worse and I'm trying to suck it up. But they want me to do what I did when his mum was terminal and support them. I'm trying I really am. He's said he doesn't know why he came back and he's moving out in a few weeks. Is this just him pushing me away? I can support him but I can't support the whole family this time. I just don't know what to do or where to turn anymore.
