Hi thankyou for allowing me to join your group. My Dad was diagnosed with colon cancer in July last year which had already spread to his lungs, kidneys and lymph nodes. Dad always said , he wouldn’t want to now if he was dying so he is unaware of his diagnosis. We were told that he probably only had three to six months left but we are in our eighth month. Two weeks ago he began having fits and after a CT scan we were told he has three tumours on his brain. He doesn’t appear to be in pain. I come from a large family and have a rota so someone is always there to help Mum. He is very confused and deteriorating by the day and some members of my family are really not dealing with things right now. I am holding it together but do have the occasional melt down, I am scared of how I am going to cope when the inevitable happens. Many thanks xxx
