Hi Dolly,

Welcome to our forum, although I'm sorry for the reasom that has brought you here. It certainly sounds as if your husband had a rough time at the end and this must have been very difficult for you, as well as him.

After losing him at only 55, I can fully understand just how hard Christmas must have been for you this year.

Do you have any family or friends who can support you?

I am thinking of you and praying for you to find the strength to get through this.Remember that we are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

My daughter my only child died of pancreatic cancer stage 4 spread to liver died this September 2018 after being diagnosed in June...I blame the GPS and not happy with doctors treatment etc I'm lost my best friend ..they really need to find out what causes this and early detection is needed 

Hi Maur,

I am so sorry to hear of your daughter's passing. How tragic to have your only daughter taken away from you so cruelly. Three months is no time to get your head around such a diagnoosis. I am one of five and I lost a brother to an accident when he was only 28, newly married and, with his whole life to look forward to. Sadly, he only survived on life support for 3 weeks.

We all miss him sorely, but it broke my mum's heart and, she was never the same after that. I have lost both parents and many relatives and close friends to cancer. I have had 2 bouts of breast cancer myself in the past 9 years, so I know the disease from both sides of the fence. Treatment has come a long way since mum had it 21 years ago, but it still has a long way to go.

I expect that Christmas was especially hard for you this year. I am thinking of you and hoping that you find the strength to carry on.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Hi 

I am so sorry to hear your sad news. My husband was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer that had spread to his liver.He has recently passed away on 21st may 2020 just 7 weeks after diagnosis. This is a cruel disease a aggressive cancer that is difficult to treat. We as a family are really struggling to live without him. He deteriorated so quickly and his journey wasent without its challenges.He was just 56 years old.

Hi Pam,

Welcome to our forum. I am so sorry to hear the sad news about your husband's passing. It is lways a shock when someone so young is taken so quickly. We lost my father-in-law just 5 days after diagnosis last year. We felt that we were only just coming to terms with his diagnosis when he was gone.

It is still all very new to you and, I can understand how you are finding it so hard to live without him. What ages are your family and, do you have family or friends to support you at this difficult time?

I am hoping and praying for better days for you all.

Kind regards,
Jolamine xx

I am so sorry for your loss, it as never got easier for me and its been over two years now, I can't move on from this and I'm not the sort of person to find someone else, I cry myself to sleep and cry because I've woke up, it's never hard and the longer he's gone the more I want to be with him, so I hope and pray your a stronger person than me, but will find that some people will try and help you thr but it don't help me I just want to be left alone I talk to him every day here, and started having a telephone medium when I can afford her Susan bond she very good I know it's Tommy talking to her because I know his words he would use, she also said the more I talk to him the stronger he will get, you should try her but you have to book in advance don't think she got any more appointments til July August she that good and it helps me just for a little bit god bless you xx

thanks I have got family and friends but most of the time I shut myself away, we were so very close, I could have my house full every day but he's not there so it don't help so I prefer to be on my own, otherwise I just fake feeling better and it's exusting good bless

Hi Jolamine

I have 3 sons matthew 29, Lewis 24 and Rob 21. They are all still at home and are struggling with losing their dad.

I have a few friends that I meet up with. I go walking with them.  I try and make the effort even though I may not always feel like it.

Kind Regards

Pam

Hi Dolly

I am so sorry of your loss and how much you are strugg, I find when I wake up the hardest because the reality it's me that he has passed away and he isn't coming back.