Hi Trish

So sorry to read the reason for your joining this forum. I really do not know how you get your head round such double bad news (I only had to deal with one diagnosis - my husband) but can say,like Lorraine, that you should get all the support you can from those who are there for you all.  The forum is a great place to offload both your emotions and ask specific questions (you can also contact the nurses on the number on this page which is freephone from UK landlines and most  mobiles).  From my own point of view the only way I coped was by taking day to day and asking for help when we needed it.  Your parents have your love and support and I hope your Dad's recovery from surgery goes smoothly.  Hopefully both your Mum and Dad have a good medical team/GP and access to specialist nurse or MacMillan who can also talk to youself with their permission. Virtual hugs sent your way at this difficult time.Jules54

Hi Trish

So sorry to read the reason for your joining this forum. I really do not know how you get your head round such double bad news (I only had to deal with one diagnosis - my husband) but can say,like Lorraine, that you should get all the support you can from those who are there for you all.  The forum is a great place to offload both your emotions and ask specific questions (you can also contact the nurses on the number on this page which is freephone from UK landlines and most  mobiles).  From my own point of view the only way I coped was by taking day to day and asking for help when we needed it.  Your parents have your love and support and I hope your Dad's recovery from surgery goes smoothly.  Hopefully both your Mum and Dad have a good medical team/GP and access to specialist nurse or MacMillan who can also talk to youself with their permission. Virtual hugs sent your way at this difficult time.Jules54