I think Jules has answered your question the way I would have. I recently booked a few days away with a friend but as it grew closer my symptoms seemed to get worse and I was panicking something would happen to me whilst I was far from home.  I felt, in the end, I couldnt let people down, went and had a lovely time.  I think maybe make sure your partner really wants to go and, as Jules has suggested visit your GP.

Thank you for your responses. We did seek advice and I have just returned home having had to leave M in hospital. We went to her oncology team and as soon as they saw her they wanted tests, x Rays, scans and transpires she has pneumonia again!  I came home but want to go back there as the Doctor visiting started talking about not resuscitating and all sorts of graphic scenarios we weren't really thinking about.

Thank you for your responses. We did seek advice and I have just returned home having had to leave M in hospital. We went to her oncology team and as soon as they saw her they wanted tests, x Rays, scans and transpires she has pneumonia again!  I came home but want to go back there as the Doctor visiting started talking about not resuscitating and all sorts of graphic scenarios we weren't really thinking about.