Hi, My mum has been diagnosed with grade 3 nuroendocrine tumours in the liver and gallbladder, I've been told by the palliative nurse that she has only months left. (She now's it's terminal but not that it's months not years) My Dad has had several mini strokes which has left him with some memory and behavioural issues, he's basically regressed to what we describe as naughty school boy stage. Mum has asked that we tell him she is terminal in the hope that he will be a bit more understanding, I just Don't know how to tell him when I know that in all likelihood he will forget and we will have to keep repeating the news. I've thought about writing it down for him .... I would be interested to know if anyone thinks this is a good idea and has suggestions on what to say.
Thank you
P
