Newbie&not dealing too good.

hey! Im new to this chat thought id come and maybe find it easier hearing from others on this. My mum is 55 she had breast cancer 16/17 years ago and in the past 4years to cancer came back and is in her bones.Its went from her back to her shoulder to her ribs to her hips.Since last April her foot had crack in it&she took herself to get it xrayd due to cancer they referred her onto orthopedics by time she seen them the crack in foot had turned into a chunk wasting away in her foot they debated pinning it but due to cancer and bone wearing away they agreed not to as it would have been too big an op.now her both legs is starting to go from under her.I am struggling so muh seeing her getting worse in front of me&end up taking it out on myself.im strong in front of her but every wee thing i see her getting sorer&slower doing i come away from seeing her worse&cry most days.to top it all off was with her at ono aptment and there is now somethig showing in her bowels which she had to get investigated.at this stage i wouldnt be surprised if it is cancerous as all her bones near her!sorry ranting there.awww just know it gona be worst journey of my life!thanks for your time sorry didnt know what all to write.

Take care.Sinead x

 

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  • Hi Sinead = poor mum - what a dreadful worry for you all. Do keep posting here so we can help in our way. All you can do is keep focussed on things one day at a time. Yea = we went through that with our mum - although she was never diagnosed or treated. It was found out all too late. Lets hope the doctors get cracking and get this under control. .

    All best wishes and huggies to you all

    Steven xx

  • Hey Steven..getting v.hard to focus as every day shes getting slowly worse or something else starting to happen.over wkend there shes had 3 wobbles&near fell,which is start of new things happening.they not really treating hers just trying to slow things down.if u know what i mean..she got bone scan so just hada wait see what it all shows..awww now!one day at a time!x

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  • Hey Steven..getting v.hard to focus as every day shes getting slowly worse or something else starting to happen.over wkend there shes had 3 wobbles&near fell,which is start of new things happening.they not really treating hers just trying to slow things down.if u know what i mean..she got bone scan so just hada wait see what it all shows..awww now!one day at a time!x

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