Struggling with my emotions

I don’t know if this is the right place to post, but I feel a bit desperate at the minute to find people who may feel the same as me. 

Just over 5 weeks ago my dad received a cancer diagnosis, which we have been told has spread, and it is now more of a case of pro longing his life rather than curing it. It has been one of the hardest experiences, I am constantly worried. He has lost his mobility and it has just been awful to watch. I’m currently in my early 20s and nearly 7 months pregnant, and my emotions are just all over the place, and I am really struggling to know who to talk to, or know how to talk to anyone about the matter, as I can’t help but feel it is very depressing. I am starting to worry about work, I haven’t been since we have found the news out, mainly to deal with my emotions, but also to help my dad. I do not feel ready to go back, I am so anxious, but still have a month left until my maternity leave.


I don’t know how long he will have, or really anything regarding the journey ahead, and I just really would like if anyone has any advice on how to cope, and how they approached work.

  • Hello , After reading your post ,  I am just saying as a cancer patient myself it is equally difficult to talk to someone for fear of upsetting them as it certainly is for a family member or friend to open the subject to the cancer patient themselves .

    Being  Honest with each other about the situation is so painful to do but sorry to say it is the only way to discuss the subject.

    I am my self waiting for results that will shape where my own life goes from hear , and I have been offered McMillan counselling to help me cope with this situation .

    McMillan counselling is not just for the patient they also offer counselling to family /relatives in trying to cope with the trauma cancer causes to everyone who is struggling with the situation.

    Even as a patient myself , I would say please do reach out for support it is there for you but you need to tell them your struggling..

    Hoping this is of some help Wishing your dad and you / family all the best at this frightening time .