Hi Taylor, my partner is 32 and also has stage 4 , I think it helped that the doctors said it was nothing he had done, just a freak rare cancer…but also frustrating that there are no answers as to why. I completely understand, and we don’t have kids…..BUT the good news is that the doctors said because he’s young and your partner too, there’s a lot more hope than someone much older despite the advanced nature of the cancer. He’s going through chemotherapy and immunotherapy and I’ve to say coping a lot better than some older colleagues I know going through similar. So , even though it’s horrible to have this at a young age, it does give you better ability to cope. 

Hi Taylor, my partner is 32 and also has stage 4 , I think it helped that the doctors said it was nothing he had done, just a freak rare cancer…but also frustrating that there are no answers as to why. I completely understand, and we don’t have kids…..BUT the good news is that the doctors said because he’s young and your partner too, there’s a lot more hope than someone much older despite the advanced nature of the cancer. He’s going through chemotherapy and immunotherapy and I’ve to say coping a lot better than some older colleagues I know going through similar. So , even though it’s horrible to have this at a young age, it does give you better ability to cope. 

Thank you so much for the reply. Crazy thw change there has been in my partner from when I wrote this. He's back to him 'Normal' self after the 1st round of immunotherapy. He has a ct scan tomorrow and back for 2nd round immunotherapy next week. Looking really positive ATM. And we got married two weeks ago so that's been lovely

I hope all goes well with you partners treatment and I'm always here for a chat if you want to talk x

Congratulations that’s great to hear and sending you even more positive vibes! Really uplifting for me too to hear this