Welcome to the forum, Taylor193374 although I'm sorry to hear about the reason that brings you here.

The news you've received is undoubtedly overwhelming, and it's completely natural to feel lost and uncertain during such challenging times. You've reached out to a community that cares, and it's okay to express your feelings. I hope some of our members who can relate to your story will be here shortly to talk with you and offer support.

As you prepare for the upcoming appointment with the consultant, it might be helpful to bring a list of questions and concerns. Understanding the treatment options, potential outcomes, and how to communicate this with your children could be discussed during the appointment. The medical team is there to guide you through this process and provide as much clarity as possible.

In terms of sharing the news with your children, honesty, and age-appropriate explanations are key. You may want to assure them that you and your partner, along with the medical team, are doing everything possible to address the situation. Children can be more resilient than we sometimes give them credit for, and maintaining open communication can help them process the information.

Take things one step at a time, and don't hesitate to lean on your friends, family, and the support networks around you. You are stronger than you realise, and there is a community here ready to listen and offer comfort during this difficult time.

With my best wishes,

Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator

Thank you 

Thank you