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Fathers Stage 4 Pancreatic Cancer

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I wish I never had to ever visit this site. I'm sorry but I really do wish I never even knew a forum like this existed. My father, my hero, my best friend has inoperable and incurable Pancreatic Cancer. The oncologists give no hope whatsoever, I feel like there's no hope it's as though this is it his time is up but I don't believe that. I believe that my dad can fight this and I believe that my dad can win but I feel like I'm the only one who wants to believe this. I've joined a million Facebook groups, I've bought a million different supplements but I am not a doctor, I don't have access to scans or to blood work I don't know what to do. I made a promise that I will cure him and I will, I just don't know how to. I just wish this could all go away and my dad could be healthy again, he doesn't deserve this and I wish it was me. I wish I had it. I don't know what to do anymore

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    my mum has just been diagonied with the same as your dad, up until 5 weeks ago she was working in the NHS, she lost lots of weight at the start of November, and was told it was type dibetias, she became more and more unwell in the last few months and eventully went into hosiptal 3 and 1/2 weeks ago

    she had jaundus and had to have a stent, and thank god is now eating and drinking, she has had a biopsy but no restults as of yet, one doctor told us there is nothing they can do and she is looking at around 3 months,

    they have not been that instreated in my mum as they just want to get her out and then let king collage deal with her, mum is 74 but never been unwell.

    its devestanting watching her sink lower and lower.sorry for the spelling mistakes im just writing and in a world of my own at the moment

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    evening

    my mum has just been diagonied with the same as your dad, up until 5 weeks ago she was working in the NHS, she lost lots of weight at the start of November, and was told it was type dibetias, she became more and more unwell in the last few months and eventully went into hosiptal 3 and 1/2 weeks ago

    she had jaundus and had to have a stent, and thank god is now eating and drinking, she has had a biopsy but no restults as of yet, one doctor told us there is nothing they can do and she is looking at around 3 months,

    they have not been that instreated in my mum as they just want to get her out and then let king collage deal with her, mum is 74 but never been unwell.

    its devestanting watching her sink lower and lower.sorry for the spelling mistakes im just writing and in a world of my own at the moment

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