Hi crazycatlady! I think we may share a love of cats! So sorry to hear about you Grandad. It must be a very difficult time for you and your family. I have breast cancer myself and although I have not had a family member with cancer I did lose a very dear friend to bladder cancer which had spread to other areas in his body. You must remember that everyone is different so anything I say may not be the same for him. My friend had about a year between being told it was terminal and passing away. He was OK for about 9 months and then deteriorated quite quickly towards the end. With your wedding on the horizon I would try and get a time line from the oncologist, maybe in a few weeks when the shock of the diagnosis is less acute. It sound as if you have a caring family and I'm sure you will love and support him. I hope this note helps, keep strong, thinking of you, Mog, xx

Hi crazycatlady! I think we may share a love of cats! So sorry to hear about you Grandad. It must be a very difficult time for you and your family. I have breast cancer myself and although I have not had a family member with cancer I did lose a very dear friend to bladder cancer which had spread to other areas in his body. You must remember that everyone is different so anything I say may not be the same for him. My friend had about a year between being told it was terminal and passing away. He was OK for about 9 months and then deteriorated quite quickly towards the end. With your wedding on the horizon I would try and get a time line from the oncologist, maybe in a few weeks when the shock of the diagnosis is less acute. It sound as if you have a caring family and I'm sure you will love and support him. I hope this note helps, keep strong, thinking of you, Mog, xx

Hi Mog! 
I think we must! I have 2 cats, my absolute babies! Who, I must say, have clearly known there is something wrong and have been giving me lots of cuddles and affection the last couple days! 
I have heard this before, and I must say, it's the bit I am most dreading- the sudden decline in health. 
I am very sorry to hear about your friend. I hope they suffered no pain. 
Its going to take some time before my grandad is ready to ask that question about timeline but I do agree, I would like to know. It's going to be a tough few months.
Stay safe.

Maddie x