Hi i was in similar position to you other year with my darling wife , she is completely incontinent because of Tia's (mini stroke ,) we got hospital bed with side rails, single size one .  but she climbed over it and fel further to the floor luckily didn't break anything but plenty of bruises .I tried camp bed beside her for me but she got nasty about it she's got Parkinson's and Alzheimer's plus other problems .I have baby monitor good idea , and commode right beside bed so she can use it for support and toilet rather than walk any distance although she has a walker nearby just incase. tried thin mattress on floor and waterproof sheets on bed and mattress just incase.i let her sleep with nothing on below waist let things dry and breathe rather than keep covered up 24/7 , she has less uti's this way, and always has a regular shower or wash down below uses femfresh soap, don't know if possible for men or just mild jel  . don't know if I've helped you but hope I've given you ideas .

Billy

PLEASE start your wife on Waterfall D Mannose - 

this works a miracle on UTI's !!!!!!   No more antibiotics, give it a chance and follow the instructions.  The company is called Sweet Cures - they are amazingly helpful.

you can Google this- I promise you it will work but only if it is E- coli.   
good luck and warm regards.

Thanks for the info I'll definitely have a good look at what you said about treatment.           THANK YOU 

Billy

Thanks for the info I'll definitely have a good look at what you said about treatment.           THANK YOU 

Billy

Billy, the GP's mostly know about D Mannose.  The Sweet Cures website is very very explanatory, it saved me from antibiotics the rest of my life as the infection never really clears up with antibiotics.

but as I said, it only is effective if the bacteria is E Coli ( which is most likely) and I hope the hospital laboratory has tested for E. coli.

goid luck, would love to know how your wife gets on with it. Can buy online if chemist doesn't stock it.  Please don't use any other D Mannose on sale, they don't work......

PS. GP's don't prescribe it as it's too expensive £23 per box