My Husband has been diagnosed with stage 2 lung cancer and the attitude is just getting worse. It was never brilliant but he now is just getting worse. He drinks too much and has a sharp temper so many evenings are spoilt by this. Married many years but he seems to be constantly annoyed with me, the children, friends who he never phoned,  but they phone him to see how he is. He’s so pleasant though outside the house and especially with the Nurses. I still work and look after grand children in my spare time so not under his feet. Words of wisdom please to make sense of this all. Thanks.