Should it be me?

Hi all,

I was recently diagnosed with right breast IDC Grade 3 (aggressive). 1st Dec, I was told I need a second biopsy to find the nature of a small lesion which was hidden behind a 4cm tumor. My breast surgeon requested it as urgent and told me he would see me very soon for results where they would know the type, stage and what treatment to deal with it. 

I received a letter telling me to come to the breast clinic 22nd Dec. I thought this date was very far away for a 2nd biopsy procedure, but I was just glad things are moving. Since my diagnosis, I have experienced sharp stabbing like pains in the tumor area. I called my breast specialist today, who is absolutely brilliant!!!, just for advice. She was under the impression that a week had gone by and i'd already had my 2nd biopsy so, could I give radiology a call, mention its urgency and ask if I could have a date for a follow up biopsy as  22nd Dec is the date I go back to clinic for results.

I did as I was asked, to be told they are aware because it is on my notes as urgent, but there are no availble appointments (no matter how urgent!) 

Im obviously not going to refuse as I dont want to delay my treatment any further, but my question is....should it be me chasing the hospital for appointments? Is it my responsibility? But if I hadnt called today, my specialist would not have known and would have assumed Id already had the biopsy done, so she was glad I called on the off chance.

I have 15 days to 'play' with. Do I keep my 22nd Dec appointment? There will be no results to give. It takes around 2 weeks for results after the procedure.....but need procedure first!!!! 

Im not comfortable with all this especially since the word breast cancer and aggressive were used in the same sentence!

What do you think?

Would appreciate anyone experiencing the same setback or just some general advice.

Much love xx

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  • Hello and thanks for posting, 

    I am sorry to learn about your recent diagnosis and that you are waiting for a second biopsy. I can appreciate that this is a stressful situation to be in.

    In an ideal world patients shouldn't have to have to chase up their appointments, and I am not sure if it is really fair to ask you, but it is probably a reflection of the pressure that the NHS is under just now.  I think you need to get back to your breast specialist, let them know what you were told when you called radiology, ask if this matters and what you should do about the appointment the week after next. 

    Waiting is seldom easy and I can understand anyone in this position feeling uneasy. I think the best course of action at the moment is to talk to the breast specialist and get their input.

    If you want to give us a ring to talk anything over please do, our number is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and we are around weekdays 9-5. 

    Best wishes,

    Julia

  • Hi Julia,

    I got in contact my breast specialist again and was told they would give radiology a 'gentle nudge', and it wouldn't do any harm for me to do so as well. They also said radiology may give me a call within 2 days (including today), and I would still have my results by the consultants appointment.

    Anytime after these 2 days, I shouldn't come to clinic, and another appointment would be made.

    My mind is at rest that they haven't forgotten me and have faith they will be in touch as soon as they possibly can.

    Thanks Julia x

  • Hello I.Love.life and I am sorry to hear that you are waiting for another biopsy to be done.

    While I know it must be worrying do remember that even if it is getting bigger this still does not mean the cancer will spread and that your situation or outlook will change.  I also think when anyone are worried it could be all too easy to see the situation is worse when actually it isn't. 

    CT scans and MRI's are usually done in early stage breast cancer for different reasons. For example they may be carried out if there is a concern that the cancer could have spread.  This concern might be because the patient has particular symptoms that might be caused by cancer being in another part of the body or if cancer was found in the lymph nodes. 

    I hope next week goes well and that you will be okay. Please get back to us if you need any more information or support.  You may find it helpful to talk things through with one of the nurses on our helpline.  The number to call is Freephone 0808 800 4040 and the lines are open from 9am till 5pm Monday to Friday.

    Take care,

    Caroline 

  • Hi Mickey,

    I don't expect you will see this post until you feel up to reading and replying, but all the best for your op.

    Take care

    Much love xx :love:

  • Hi Positive Polly, 

    I did see your message before I left yesterday - thabk you for thinking of me, that's so kind. 

    cant type much (sore arms)  so have 'cut and paste' sane jessagevto others. 

    I was first in at 7 and had my Anaesthetic by 8 and so must have done op in less than 10

    Hours .

    I’ve tried to rest my eyes for ten mins in between my half hourly reconstructed Boobie checks (blood vessels are still working), blood pressure, temperature and finger Clip, which I guess is heart rate. 

    I came round from anaesthetic really quickly, 6.40 I think I saw on clock when I first looked after coming round. They say most people don’t come round til after 9. Had a sore throat and croaky voice, but ok now. 

    I had very little pain for ages, but now I have a little bit and on stupid skin reactions, worst one under left arm, so thank god I bought a little beanbag type red heart, stops my Skin rubbing. I’m on morphine, so all ok xxx 

    Cafetter bag was a gorgeous Sea green at first, I’ve drunk lots of water (as directed) and so it’s lighter green now. 

    Blood pressure has been a little low and so checked more often and more water I was told to drink.

    My DVT socks are green with toes and I have contracting something on both one after the other  xx

    Im ok, just very tired .

     

    love n hugs Mickey xx ️

  • Hi Mickey,

    Hope you're not in too much discomfort and can rest xx

    You're through another stage of your recovery journey.....well done!!! I'm so, so pleased for you. I have an. even more positive mind now. 

    Real hugs hurts atm, so......((((((BIG AIR HUGS))))) for you!!!

    Speak soon

    Much love xx :love:

    Positive Polly xx

     

  • Thank you Positive Polly - air hugs are fabulous xx glad you're feeling even more positive too xx ️

  • Home today Positive Polly - how are you doing? Xx ️

  • Hi Mickey x

    Im good, plodding on, getting to grips with all that comes with Christmas.

    Great news you're back home. How are you doing? Understanding you have pain at present, but managable pain I hope.

    No doubt a lot of energy was used up going to apts, waiting time and surgery, so take this time to relax and recuperate some of that lost energy, to be ready for the next stage when it comes. (Hark at me! It was you who gave me the strength to keep going - now it's me telling you to be strong) That's the effect your kind advice had on me and I'm sure many others can echo my words too!

    Rest well angel

    Much love xx :love:

     

  • Hello Positive Polly, 

    I love that you are wrapping yourself up in Christmas, great way to get through to next weeks apt. 

    Im doing really well, thank you. I was worried about the stairs and getting in and out of bed, but it's been absolutely ok. The only real pain is my back, guess from positions I was put in during surgery. I'll start the official exercises tomorrow and hope they will help too (must force myself to do them). 

    My hubby says I look so much brighter like the stress of the journey has suddenly lifted now. I know it's not necessarily the end of my treatment, but thank god the cancer has gone and my face shows it - seriously. 

    Thank you for your caring kindness and giving me strength to get to this point. 

    Just remember if I can do this, you can do whatever your treatment entails too and you will. I'll be here for you Xx 

    Love n massive hugs Mickey xx ️

  • Hi Positive Polly, 

    Not sure what time your hospital apt is for the biopsies tomorrow and so I'm sending you all my positivity, love and hugs to you.  
     

    Your angel will be watching over you. 
     

    xx ️Mickey xx 

  • Sending a virtual hug and hope you're ok and resting up now xx ️

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