Hi MaryCE13 and thank you for posting,

I am sorry to learn of your mum's situation this must be a difficult time for you all.

It is good that the calcium levels have dropped and your mum is at the moment feeling better, but I can appreciate this is confusing for you.

It sounds like the doctors are no longer treating the cancer itself but they will continue to manage your mum's symptoms such as high levels of calcium. Unfortunately, the calcium levels may become raised again and as the cancer progresses she is likely to become unwell. I am sorry and I appreciate this may be difficult to read.

It would be best to discuss this further with the team looking after your mum. They know her situation and can discuss with you how they will manage any future symptoms.

I wondered if your mum has been referred to the palliative care team. These specialists manage symptoms and can provide emotional support to your mum and family.

Palliative care/ Macmillan nurses are involved in the team if this has not been done already, your mum's specialist/nurse specialist or GP can make a referral on her behalf. They can be both hospital and community-based.

I hope this reply is useful. If you would like to talk things through with one of our nurses on the helpline, the freephone number to call is 0808 800 4040 and we are available between 9am and 5pm Monday to Friday,.

Take care,

Jemma

Hi MaryCE13 and thank you for posting,

I am sorry to learn of your mum's situation this must be a difficult time for you all.

It is good that the calcium levels have dropped and your mum is at the moment feeling better, but I can appreciate this is confusing for you.

It sounds like the doctors are no longer treating the cancer itself but they will continue to manage your mum's symptoms such as high levels of calcium. Unfortunately, the calcium levels may become raised again and as the cancer progresses she is likely to become unwell. I am sorry and I appreciate this may be difficult to read.

It would be best to discuss this further with the team looking after your mum. They know her situation and can discuss with you how they will manage any future symptoms.

I wondered if your mum has been referred to the palliative care team. These specialists manage symptoms and can provide emotional support to your mum and family.

Palliative care/ Macmillan nurses are involved in the team if this has not been done already, your mum's specialist/nurse specialist or GP can make a referral on her behalf. They can be both hospital and community-based.

I hope this reply is useful. If you would like to talk things through with one of our nurses on the helpline, the freephone number to call is 0808 800 4040 and we are available between 9am and 5pm Monday to Friday,.

Take care,

Jemma

Thank for your reply. Yes mum is under the pallative care team. As you have mentioned her calcium levels have started to go up again and she is on fluids along with a drug called denosumab. The pallative care team have explained it to me as you have, still very hard. Her ward is now closed due to the virus, so all the more upsetting as I can’t see her and I know she is starting to go down hill again. 
Thank you it is good to chat on here.