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Dazey70
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I'm trying to hold it together before my breast clinic tomorrow but the nerves are starting to set in.

I've tried distracting myself as don't want a panic attack at the appointment, however, the thoughts come creeping in - even waking me up from my sleep.

Breast lump on left side with shoulder, shoulder blade, armpit pain. I feel a mess.

I'm 51 and postmenopausal, so not sure I can blame it on hormones any more.

Anyone with any advice for tomorrow  - hate the thought of biopsies. Yes I'm squeamish and a big baby!

Thanks for listening 

Jo

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    Hi Jo

    I know its not easy trying to stay calm and not over think. Is there something you can be doing today to help keep mind occupied. 

    The nurses in the breast clinics are very compassionate and used to nervous patients so when you get there just explain. 

    Hope all goes well. Let me know how you get on. 

    Louise xx

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    Thank you Louise. It's a bit difficult to stay actively occupied because I've have Long Covid for 14 months, which causes horrible fatigue daily.

    I'm trying to be optimistic but cautious. I'm just so tender in certain areas that the thought of being poked and prodded makes me feel nauseous. When GP examined me I was so sensitive that I was literally cringing. 

    I know I'm being silly, but I can't help feeling so squeamish.

    I'll be glad to get home.

    Jo

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    Hello, just seen your post.....

     

    I am exactly the same and the thought of having biopsies in my breast sent me in complete panic almost rendering me to tears. All I can say is the actual experience on the day wasn't half as bad as I had imagined! The staff were fab, my breast was numbed and I honestly didn't feel a thing! When I left I felt stupid for getting myself so worked up...our imaginations and fear can rule how we feel, it's difficult to switch off that fear, I totally understand.

    your appointment will be over before you know it, you'll be sat at home after and think...wow...I did it! 
     

    Also try and remember that the biopsy won't last forever...mine took around 20 mins ( including the waiting time for the numbing) my lovely nurse held my hand and distracted me talking about east Enders and coronation street, I totally focused on her....

     

    pop back and let me know how it went xx

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    Thank you Marlyn   I look calm on the outside but truthfully not so calm inside.

    I just hope I can get through it without too many wobbles.

    It doesn't help that I do not like needles, but I know if a biopsy is required then I best get on with it.

    I will certainly let you know how it goes, and thanks again.

    Jo xx

  • Offline in reply to Dazey70

    I hope all went well for you Dazey! 

    I hope your adrenaline took over and you bossed it. 

    Thinking of you

    C x

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