Itchy tingly mole on face

Hi all,

 

I'm 34 and I've had a large mole on the side of my face for as long as I can remember.  It's by the side near my ear so never really paid it much attention. 

It starged itching about a week ago. I suffer from health anxiety anyway so of course was straight onto Google and now I'm scared to death. 

It doesn't appear to have changed in size or shape at all (from what I can tell anyway) just this constant itching. (sort of like a tingly feeling) 

I called my gp who booked me in for a telephone consultation next wednesday. 

I'm so scared, I'm trying to be strong around my children (3 and 7) but it's all I can think about and I'm close to tears everyday. 

I've taken about 200 pictures of the size of my face trying to spot any changes but am driving myself crazy with worry.

What do I do? If it is something bad, I can't leave my babies. My fear isn't about me, it's about them being so young and not understanding If I have to leave them. Sorry for the gloom and doom, I'm just so scared right now x

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  • Hi Haymil,

    Please try not to over think your mole. If you've had it for years and the only change it's showing is itching, there is a very good chance it's fine and it may be something simple that's causing the skin to itch in that area (have you changed any cleaning or cosmetic items you use on your skin as it may be a slight allergic reaction)? Itching alone isn't necessarily a sign of malignancy.

    It's good that you are speaking to your GP - they will probably ask you to send them a couple of your photos for them to look at. If they aren't sure about it they will either send the photos to a dermatologist for their advice or they will refer you to dermatology. There is a good chance though that the dermatologist will think it looks fine. You may be asked by your GP or a dermatologist to monitor the mole over a few weeks, perhaps taking a photo every week to show if there are any subtle changes. So until you've spoken to your GP don't take anymore photos, unless it changes drastically before Wednesday.

    75% of patients referred to dermatology are given a clean bill of health so try not to focus on the worse case scenario because there is a very high chance it's not going to happen. Stop looking on Google - the images don't reflect the differences between a benign mole, a dysplastic (pre-cancerous) mole and a malignant mole. The information is also a year or two behind the times - it doesn't give updated treatment details regarding new treatments and the success they are beginning to show, so it's not a true reflection of moles & melanoma these days. 

    Try to distract yourself until Wednesday - you can't change anything and worrying about something that might never happen will make the anxiety worse than the problem. Good luck and please let us know how you get on,

    Angie (melanoma patient)

     

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  • Hi Haymil,

    Please try not to over think your mole. If you've had it for years and the only change it's showing is itching, there is a very good chance it's fine and it may be something simple that's causing the skin to itch in that area (have you changed any cleaning or cosmetic items you use on your skin as it may be a slight allergic reaction)? Itching alone isn't necessarily a sign of malignancy.

    It's good that you are speaking to your GP - they will probably ask you to send them a couple of your photos for them to look at. If they aren't sure about it they will either send the photos to a dermatologist for their advice or they will refer you to dermatology. There is a good chance though that the dermatologist will think it looks fine. You may be asked by your GP or a dermatologist to monitor the mole over a few weeks, perhaps taking a photo every week to show if there are any subtle changes. So until you've spoken to your GP don't take anymore photos, unless it changes drastically before Wednesday.

    75% of patients referred to dermatology are given a clean bill of health so try not to focus on the worse case scenario because there is a very high chance it's not going to happen. Stop looking on Google - the images don't reflect the differences between a benign mole, a dysplastic (pre-cancerous) mole and a malignant mole. The information is also a year or two behind the times - it doesn't give updated treatment details regarding new treatments and the success they are beginning to show, so it's not a true reflection of moles & melanoma these days. 

    Try to distract yourself until Wednesday - you can't change anything and worrying about something that might never happen will make the anxiety worse than the problem. Good luck and please let us know how you get on,

    Angie (melanoma patient)

     

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