Breast lump biopsies - advice please

Hi, 

So I found a large lump in my breast and had it looked at this week at the clinic. I expected to be told that it was a fibroadenoma or something so was quite surprised as their reaction showed it was possibly something else. 

Within minutes of the nurse scanning my breast, she called in the consultant who told me they were concerned. The nurse told the consultant my node was 2.5cm too. So they took quite a few core biopsies of my breast lump and from my armpit too. I also had a marker placed and 2 mammograms. They told me they would see me in just over a weeks time and really stressed to bring my husband with me. 

I had a core biopsy taken from another lump 2 years ago but they weren't worried and it was a completely different experience to this time.

After my mammogram, I saw the nurse typing up notes and I saw 3 different sizes: 7.5cm, 3.5cm and 5.2cm. So all fairly large! But not sure what it was referring to.

I'm 36. Breast cancer doesn't run in my family. I actually feel quite calm and not overly anxious about it. Lots of people keep telling me that most of the time these lumps are found to be benign etc. But I feel that I would actually prefer to go to my appointment next week expecting bad news as thinking it was probably nothing to go through that this week took me aback a little. So I'd rather be prepared. If it is benign then that's great!

So I really need some help with knowing what to ask/find out next week if it is bad news. I'd rather have some questions prepared. Cos otherwise I'll be sat there with my head in a daze and come out regretting I didn't find out more! Could anyone suggest some questions or things I should know/find out? 

Thank you so much!

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  • Hi Honey

    Juat checking in with you. Have you had your results app yet? 
     

    Sending love. Sarah xx 

  • Hi Sarah,

    Thank you so much for asking. Yes I had my results on Wednesday - I have grade 2 er+ breast cancer. Just waiting on her2 results. It's in my lymph node too. I start chemo in about 2-3 weeks time. Apparently some research has been done to suggest younger people respond better to chemo before surgery. I have CT scan this weekend and then bone scan next week too. Just waiting for MRI scan appointment. Booked my hair appointment today to have it all off before the treatment starts as I think I'd find it too upsetting to see it coming out in clumps. 

    How are you doing? 

    Bethany x

  • Hi Honey

    So sorry to hear your news. I know you were expecting it, like I was but it's still hideous to hear. We have the same type of cancer. Mine is HER2 -  
     

    You sound super strong and ready to fight this. I've had a few wobbles but mostly I've been ok. Nothing we can do other than trust in the Dr's and let them take charge of getting us through and out the other side ASAP. 
     

    I am amazed and very thankful for how fast things move once a diagnosis is given. I cannot imagine having to wait around. That would make things 100 x worse and it's already totally rubbish! 
     

    How many chemo sessions will you be having over what period of time? A really close friend of mine went through treatment a few years ago. She's out the other side now. As we will be soon! She did exactly the same with her hair, for the same reason as you.  She stormed through her treatment, super positive mindset  - I'm using her as my role model! 
     

    If you can and feel up to it please keep me posted with how things are going. I will send you a friend request thingy! If you ever want to we can private message there. 
     

    I'm ok. I isolate from tomorrow evening. Although it's not really isolating because I then have two appointments for different procedures at different places on Monday before my actual op on Tuesday :))) 
     

    Sending lots of love and a huge big hug. Here if you need me. Sarah xxx 

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  • Hi Honey

    So sorry to hear your news. I know you were expecting it, like I was but it's still hideous to hear. We have the same type of cancer. Mine is HER2 -  
     

    You sound super strong and ready to fight this. I've had a few wobbles but mostly I've been ok. Nothing we can do other than trust in the Dr's and let them take charge of getting us through and out the other side ASAP. 
     

    I am amazed and very thankful for how fast things move once a diagnosis is given. I cannot imagine having to wait around. That would make things 100 x worse and it's already totally rubbish! 
     

    How many chemo sessions will you be having over what period of time? A really close friend of mine went through treatment a few years ago. She's out the other side now. As we will be soon! She did exactly the same with her hair, for the same reason as you.  She stormed through her treatment, super positive mindset  - I'm using her as my role model! 
     

    If you can and feel up to it please keep me posted with how things are going. I will send you a friend request thingy! If you ever want to we can private message there. 
     

    I'm ok. I isolate from tomorrow evening. Although it's not really isolating because I then have two appointments for different procedures at different places on Monday before my actual op on Tuesday :))) 
     

    Sending lots of love and a huge big hug. Here if you need me. Sarah xxx 

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