Hi worried89

im in a similar position to you. I had CIN2 cells when I was 22 and had to have treatment on my cervix. Cells seemed to had gone away as I was invited back for a smear in 3 years. 4 years on from my initial treatment I was also diagnosed with HSV2. I'm sure you'll agree with me that this was possibly one of the worst days of my life - cried for months and still not really over it now. 
 

However, I'm in a loving relationship with a very supportive and understanding partner so I'm happy now. Just before Christmas I went for my smear test to be told that my HPV had returned again, like you I've read the same articles and I'm now worried about the future.

I'm only 28 and I do want children in the future and it just makes me feel really worried about it all to be honest. I tried to speak to my doctor who was pretty dismissive. I hate having those conversations anyway as I feel I'm now judged because of my diagnoses' (I've only had 6 sexual partners, 3 of which have been 2+ year relationships). I was wondering if you managed to speak to anyone about your cells? 
 

i hope everything is good with you 

Hi Monkey21,

Sorry to hear you're going through something similar.

Yes the HSV2 diagnosis was one of the worst times of my life, just makes you feel so dirty doesn't it, i think because you're stuck with it for life, but like you I'm with a loving partner now and he doesn't seem to have contracted it or if he has he doesn't show any symptoms. I don't have any outbreaks any more either so obviously i feel alot better about that. I just panicked when i read things online that it effects HPV. So at the time of my HPV diagnosis i called my GP to try an get some reassurance abour the HPV diagnosis but like you he was very dismissive. So i rang the sexual health clinic who were alot more helpful and explained fully anout HPV and how it wasn't something i should be concerned about they told me having HSV2 also wouldn't effect it so that did put my mind at ease.

Since then i had had some bleeding after sex, and intermittently throughout the month. I am on the pill where you don't have a break an usually don't get periods so obviously was worried about the bleeding. I had to really push my gp to do anything about it but I finally saw a gynaecologist just before Christmas, they said my cervix looked fine but are sending me for a scan on my womb, if that  comes back clear they will put it down to a hormonal inbalance from the pill, in which case i will probably come off it. Still waiting to hear back from my appointment though so i need to chase it up. 
 

As for the HPV its coming up to a year since my diagnosis so nearly time for my smear test...so I'm just hoping its gone away and the bleeding isn't related.

Try not to worry too much, which i know is hard i have worried alot myself, but i know at least 5 other women, friends an work colleagues who have been diagnosed with HPV recently, i think its really common. Doesn't make you worry any less though. I will update you on how my smear goes in the next few months. 
 

Hope everything goes ok for you xx

Hey, 

I feel ok, I'm not majorly worried, but i did have some pain recently so i am going to call my gp next week to see if it should be investigated. Yeh definitely my cells are normal so thats the main thing so I'm trying not to worry too much. 
 

Ahh really, I will read up on that my self, i do take a few vitamins now for immune systems and skin and hair etc but i will read up on that one thanks! Well fingers crossed for February for you!!

My mum also had abnormal cells at one point and shes absolutely fine too, glad to hear your mum is :)

Well i lost 3 stone last year so my bmi is now 25, before that i was pretty unhealthy, never been a big eater but tended to eat the wrong foods so I'm alot healthier now, not sure if that has an impact but got to be better if your over all health is better i suppose! 
 

No problem at all :) xx

Hello, 

I also have HPV and HSV2, I just stumbled upon this conversation which I felt I needed to be part of as I haven't told anyone that I have the two, which to this day I still feel embarrassed about.

I'm 31 now and was diagnosed with both in my early twenties, one due to a cheating ex and the other I'm not sure of. 

I haven't had an outbreak of HSV2 since I was diagnosed at 23, so I forget about it. However, I too googled having the two and saw the increased chance of cervical cancer which really worried me.

I think I want children too so now I'm paranoid that may not happen... I also have a partner of 6 years who doesn't have HSV2, but does have standard HSV1.

I thought I would reach out to speak to people who understand.

I hope you're doing well. X

Hello,

I just stumbled on this forum too and I need to tell someone as I am being eaten up with shame.

I am 57 years old and 2 years ago I had my usual smear test and the results were hpv positive but no abnormal cells. My husband and I got together 35 years ago and soon after we both got the hpv virus and the genital warts. I had a colposcopy and my husband got treated and since then - I have had normal 3 yearly smear tests. 
I was shocked to know that hpv can lie dormant for over 30 years but my screening letter said that no further action needed and I was to have a follow up test in a years time. I had another positive hpv but no abnormal cells result in April this year and again no further action needed and I have to wait another year for another test. For a few months now I have had some discharge and pains in my groin. I stopped having periods when I was 46 so I think I'm well past my menopause. I have been worried that something doesn't feel quite right but kept putting off contacting my GP because I didn't want to waste anyones time and I'm still embarrassed about having hpv. Anyway, I noticed some sore patches around my vagina and I thought they might be the beginnings of the warts you sometimes get with hpv so I went to see a GP yesterday. She said that I have herpes, took a swab and gave me a prescription for something that I haven't picked up yet as I'm still in shock. I can't believe I have herpes as neither myself or my husband have ever had any symptoms in the 35 years we've been together or before. The GP explained that herpes can lie dormant the same as hpv. 
After googling hpv and hsv - I am now quite worried that I have an increased risk of cancer. My GP didn't seem bothered about my groin pain and unusual discharge. She seemed to think they are symptoms of herpes and didn't seem interested that I have hpv. I'm not sure what to do now. I am going to take whatever treatment she's given me for herpes and hope that clears up the sore spots and hopefully the pain in the groin. Does anyone know if I have a hpv positive test next year - will they give me a closer examination or do I just keep having yearly smear tests? Also - how to do you find out what strain of hpv you have? My GP said my notes didn't say. I should have asked her loads of questions but I just felt so numb.

I just want to add (as you were hoping to have children) that I have had hpv and possibly hsv lying dormant for over 30 years and in that time I have had 2 healthy children - now healthy adults, so please don't worry.

Devonmum x

Hello, I just wondered what your results were aftee the 2nd 3rd smear a year later? Did you get clear of hpv. Ive got both and very anxious. Really worried got severe anxiety and not sure how i wjll cope a year on. Ive read the worst online and it tells me i could never clear hpv and if it dosent go basically ill get cancer. 

Loosing my mind 

Hi, I'm In a similar situation now, did your hpv ever go away  

Still have mine

Oh im sorry, I'm in a terrible state about it. A years wait to retest is a lot mentally. 

Ptivate message me x

Yes I do as well I’ve had HPV with low grade cells for 4 years now. Even had a Leep in between and that didn’t work. The consultant said if I had it again this October 2025 he might corterize it 

Hello, how did you get on, did you ever clear it xx

Hello, how did you get on, did you ever clear it xx

Hi, no I’ve never cleared it, got another smear test in September 2025 and an appointment booked in Colposcopy October 2025. The consultant said if I still have it again in October which i probably will have, he is talking about cauterising the area. For some reason my body does not want to clear it. 

Oh i am sorry. I really hope this works for you x

What does this mean cauterising it? X

I think he meant burning the first layer of the cervix.