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Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

Hi, sorry to hear about your symptoms and frustrating time with getting answers.  I've just had treatment for abnormal cervical cells but before that I also had an internal ultrasound scan to view ovaries and womb as had other symptoms too.  I also had a colonoscopy done as I had a change in bowel habit since November last year, however the colonoscopy showed nothing which was a relief but still get a lot of weird symptoms on and off!  Have you had any ultrasound scans done?

Thank you Steph & sorry for the ranting post. I am too emotional at the moment & probably partly hormonal & I started a diary on 1st May that I log measurements of abdomen, toilet for urine & bowel movements,weight & food/fluid intake. Saturday had 17 urine toilet runs & tummy started at 41 inches in the morning & 46 by the evening. I am struggling to eat but when I do it’s very healthy termed as ‘clean’ foods. I am getting more lower back pain & some tummy sharp twinges with feeling sick at different pain randomly during the day. I have compared the symptoms for peri menopause & ovarian cancer/cysts etc & with a constant bloated tummy & frequent urination with lack of energy the scales slant more towards OC. I will ring the cancer research nurse thank tomorrow. Thank you I so need what ever it is sorted, getting married in August. My partner is going to help be my advocate as I feel to emotionally fragile to deal with happy talk & not the proper investigation of symptoms.

Thank you for replying & sorry to hear of your pain & search for answers I do hope you get sorted soon. After a c125 test came back slightly raised at 38 the GP sent me for an ultrasound which showed thickening of endometrial lining of womb & the fibroids which were detect the previous year after agonising pain on my right side of tummy & they could not see the ovaries last year or this time but were not concerned. Then had a hysteroscpy which showed a polyp & told to come back & have it removed. 3 weeks ago polyp removed & a second biopsy which resulted in not enough tissue to diagnose as previously but consultant said she had no concerns. I was happy after polyp was removed because I assumed that was the cause of my symptoms but I am feeling worse & getting worried. I want my symptoms to be just hormones but need a proper diagnosis the same as you.

Thank you ML2519. An update as got so bad beginning of May that I couldn’t eat as felt so full. Went to A&E & spent all day there while bladder tested & still very full even with all the urine output & X-ray showed severe constipation & after examination told to take Laxido every day & refered back to gynaecologist consultant. Went to appointment & luckily my partner was with me for support. After consultant checked tummy & said it’s just the menopause & asked if Gp had offered me antidepressants & would I like some? I was taken aback by that comment but at least had another ca125 test although she said it will be raised anyway because of fibroids, & another ultra sound. I asked what happens if ovaries not found again & she said I will be referred to a gastroenterologist if that is the case. I have lost trust in the medical staff & getting ready to book a private MRI scan as my stomach is looking 6months pregnant, not eating very much & permanent Laxatives & Renoir’s. Thank you for this site as feeling lonely & pigeon hold. Trying to stay positive as I just want a diagnosis.

So sorry to hear that you still don't have any clear answers.  It must be beyond frustrating for you.  I've had my abnormal cervical cells removed early May so that was a relief to get it over and done with.  Just waiting for a follow up internal scan on ovaries to check on things.  Maybe a private MRI would help. It sounds ridiculous that they offered you antidepressants!  That is their answer to most hormonal things! Not good enough.  Best wishes.