Hi, I'm a 30 year old female went to the dentist around 4 months ago with a lump on my hard palette told it was nothing to worry about. 

fast forward to the next dentist appointment a month later and again asked about the ulcer/lump and she said again nothing to worry about. 

I then started having strange neck pains which I had never felt before .. sore throat on and off, ear pain etc called doctor and he didn't seem concerned said to see how I go. 

fast forward another month and I've moved doctors I called them regarding the pain in my neck and she hasn't even seen me and referred me straight to the ENT 

im a mess mentally saying goodbye to my children, I really can't get it out my head that I will be leaving them. 

please can anyone tell me what to expect at my ENT appointment? 

thank you