Hi there, my husband is 55. We've been together 20 years and have 3 children. I think he's suffered with some sort of abdominal pain the whole time I've known him. He's always been either constipated or had cramps and gas. He doesn't really moan and I suppose it's just become normal for him. Things changed recently and he's been having real discomfort that's kept him awake at night and persistent diarrhoea. He sent off a sample, they found blood and now they want to do a colonoscopy. He's been having pains all round his ribs and we've realised he's lost almost a stone since Christmas. I'm so so worried now and as I write this I can't believe we didn't get help sooner. I'm worried it's cancer and that it's potentially already spread. The waiting is awful. He has an interview on the 30th March to see if he's fit enough for the colonoscopy. It feels like ages away. Sorry I think I've posted this in the wrong section, it's my first post, not sure how things work yet
