Clear smear, bleeding after sex, still waiting for Gyno

Note: I had a smear test back in 2019 which was clear.
It's been a long 6 months. It all started with constant urine infections, agony during periods and cramping mid way through my cycle. I was experiencing strange discharge too with brown stringy specs inbetween my periods. My doctors didn't care in the slightest. I kept reporting these issues and it wasn't until I had other physical issues elsewhere that I was allowed to see a doctor face to face. They gave me antibiotics which seemed to clear everything up.
Then I started experiencing spotting after sex. I went for an ultrasound which came up clear. Went back to the GP who did a pelvic exam which showed I had a lot of thrush due to the previous antibiotics... fun!
I've been referred to Gynaecology weeks ago...heard nothing back. The referral phone lines cut off, their voicemail is 'full' and people online are saying they have waited 18 WEEKS to be seen to or hear anything back. Meanwhile, the blood after sex is getting more and more. I am experiencing a lot of discomfort in my lower abdomen which is meaning i am living off of pain killers. I mentally am struggling every day. Getting out of bed is so so difficult, and honestly, it's taking all my strength to carry on. Every time my husband hints at sex, I just want to disappear. Seeing the blood every time is too much. Also feeling the urge to pee more too. Hearing the doctor say 'it's likely you're fine' does not help in the slightest after reading everybody elses experiences on here! 

Sorry to be such a negative, but I feel like nobody is listening to me or taking it seriously :neutral:

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  • Hiya,

    so originally I just saw the GP who did a basic pelvic exam. On Thursday I saw a private Gynecologist who is the one going to perform the cell removal and biopsy. 
     

    Im so sorry you're in pain! It's so frustrating that there isn't a faster way to get to a gynecologist right now on the NHS.

    But! Hopefully yours isn't serious as Erosions are quite common apparently! X

  • I'm thinking of Going private too! 
    The Gp originally said slight ecropian and he agreed when I had my transvaginal ultrasound.

    however like I say they've not Made any other suggestions as the ultrasound was otherwise normal and I had a clear smear around 14 months ago! 

    so frustrating! Glad your having further reassurance! Let us know how it goes! Xxx

  • I would recommend it as it's so good to have clarity and not be in fear for so long!

    it's so good you had that confirmation. What I'm wondering is how my transvaginal was all clear but have this constant bleed - it makes me loose a bit of trust in testing tbh!

    Will do! Hope your journey goes super smoothly and we can all be happy and healthy again soon! Xxx