Hi ‍♀️ I'm a 38 year old women who has been to the drs today. I have been experiencing shoulder pain and noticed that my lymph nodes were up and very sore. 
My left breast has been very sore too. I went to the drs today and they examined me and have found a lump in my left breast. My mum was diagnosed with breast cancer at 37 and I should have had my first Momagram in September but due to Covid was cancelled. This pain under my arm has been going on for about 4 months. I'm a single parent and I'm so frightened. The dr said the reason I'm in pain is because the lump has grown and pushed on nerves. I am waiting for an appointment at the breast clinic which he said they will call for me in the next 14 days. What happens at this appointment? My mum is 72 and can't remember. As much as I don't want to die and I'm prob over thinking all this I not so bothered about me it's what will happen to my small children. I'm so worked up. My arm is heavy and feels dreadful from the pain. Help really? Don't even know why I'm posting just wanted advice.