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Should I tell people?

Mechy
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Hi,

I went to the doctors on Friday as I had found a lump in my left breast.  Whilst she was checking she also found another lump and I've been referred to the hospital for a mammogram.

I'm trying not to worry until I know I have something to worry about but wondering whether or not to tell my parents (I'm 47 and single).

I don't want them worrying about it if it's nothing. Equally I don't want them to be upset by me not telling them.

what has everyone else done in this situation?

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  • Hello Mechy,

    It's good to keep your loved ones in the loop, but also understanding that it is standard procedure to go through tests like this to make sure there isn't anything serious. The decision is yours. Either way, there is information here on the mammogram test, which I hope will make you feel more prepared.

    Best wishes,

    Moderator Anastasia

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  • Hello Mechy,

    It's good to keep your loved ones in the loop, but also understanding that it is standard procedure to go through tests like this to make sure there isn't anything serious. The decision is yours. Either way, there is information here on the mammogram test, which I hope will make you feel more prepared.

    Best wishes,

    Moderator Anastasia

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