Hi Everyone,

my first post-Just Joined.

Will bulletpoint information for a clearer read.

13th Oct found Lump next to R breast

14th Oct Dr App Urgent referral sent for

05th Nov phoned from hospital (first contact) to arrange appointment for that Saturday.

07th consultant at hospital

during this appointment..........

physical examination

ultra sound

manmogram

Got dressed then got asked to do another mammogram

core Needle Biopsy

then advised my husband (waiting in waiting room) should come in with me to the consultant.

consultant then explained all info I had given to him them said he is sorry to tell me that they can not give me an answer as to if it is good or bad. That then need more information about my lump, I began getting upset and he was really apologetic but said we have to be realistic.

he then said I will get appointment in post for next Tuesday 10days after, MDT meeting where they will discuss a treatment plan.

I have received a letter in the post and my appointment is with an oncologist on Wednesday 18th.

please can anyone speak to me about this. I can't talk with any of my family as I don't want to worry them. I am 31 years old, with 3 young girls 7,5 and 1.

I work as a health care assistant and I'm dreading having to put on a brave face this coming Sunday. I look terrible due to not sleeping.

ive never had any health issues, I consider myself to be a really strong person and always know or find a way to deal with bad situations, however this has knocked the life out of me, literally. I feel like a stranger to myself.
 

Thank you for reading I appreciate that you have got to this point of my post