Worried about constant pains

Hello. Been reading some remarkably brave experiences on here & as others can do it, thought I'd get in touch. 

 

Over last 18 months I've had pretty much constant joint pains - have lived with it as chats with friends put it down to age as they've had exactly the same experience (none of them are medically qualified).

 

More recently (as in last few months) I've been experiencing more noticeable pain in right shoulder (front & back), right-hand side of jaw/neck and a dull ache in what seems to be in back in area of ribs/shoulder blade with pain spreading down right arm - as if something trapped. I won't go to doctor afraid of what might hear. My partner has been amazingly supportive and suggests if it was anything sinister, the pain would be there all the time even when sitting still or lying down. 

I've also recently had antibiotics for a tooth abscess on same side as all the pain & am hoping (in a warped way), that feeling this drained & rough all the time will pass when tooth is out and it's all psychological.

 

Hope no-one thinks I'm overreacting but I am honestly scared as I suddenly lost my Dad to lung cancer within 7 weeks of diagnosis. He hadn't told any of us if he'd been in pain or if he'd suffered any symptoms in particular so I've nothing to compare.

 

Take care everyone x

  • Hello happygardner

    I'm sorry to hear that you've been living with a lot of joint pains fo the past 18 months. It sounds like it's impacted quite significantly on your quality of life. 

    I know that lots of members here will understand how scary the prospect of seeing your GP can be. It's natural to feel concerned about what it is that may be causing your symptoms. 

    I wonder if you've thought about it from another angle? Here you are 18 months on living with pain that affects your quality of life. What if you saw your GP and they said that it was a condition that could be managed or treated? How might your life change if the GP were able to offer you some reassurance?

    If you're really unsure about speaking to your GP then I wonder if you might want to have a chat with one of our nurses. I'm sure that they would be able to offer some advice and support that could help ease your concerns so that you could think about seeking professional help. 
    If you'd like to speak to them they are available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    I hope that things improve for you soon. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator