Bowel cancer????

Hi 

So my partner a few years back had some blood in his stool but then it went away. Fast forward and it has started again but this time it's much worse the blood in the stools is terrible and the stools are runny. Stomach pain with a lump now appearing on the left side under the ribs.

A week ago the pain in his stomach was so severe we nearly ended up a and e. He went to the toilet and described it as like passing a blockage and after a good nights sleep he felt better.

Just yesterday after months of runny bloody poos he passed a normal poo with no blood.

It's so up and down. Been to the doctors and have an urgent referral to the hospital so just waiting for this now. I'm so worried for him. Has anyone got stories similar or what was the outcome?

Thank you in advance 

  • I completely understand how worried you both must be.  Does your partner have a date to be seen in hospital?  Depending on how long ago he was referred, you may want to chase this up with surgery/hospital.  My experience is that you may have to become something of a nuisance sometimes in order to get appointment/s.  From what you're saying, it sounds like he may well need a colonoscopy which isn't the most pleasant of procedures but should lead to finding out more.  I wouldn't rush to read too much info via google etc - you'll only worry even more and worrying changes nothing!  Try to be supportive without overwhelming him.  Listen to his worries and, if you feel you must share your own, try to share with a friend rather than adding to his burden.  I sometimes feel I'm supporting my husband through all this when I'm the one with the cancer!  Good luck to you both.